How Long Should I Meditate to Develop a Daily Habit?

how long should i meditate

Making time for yourself in this busy world isn’t always easy. But, meditation can do everything from relieving stress and reducing anxiety to boosting creativity and enhancing clarity. This ancient practice has been around for centuries, and let us tell you, the benefits are endleesssss! Take a cue from Dr. Will’s episode on How To Use Spirituality + Meditation To Heal Your Body on his show The Art of Being Well.

Despite the ton of benefits it offers, one question we always hear is, “How long do I really need to sit to see the results?!” And, that’s exactly what we’re diving into today. 

Figuring out the perfect amount of time to meditate can feel like a bit of a guessing game. Should you aim for 20 minutes? 30 minutes? 45 minutes? Or, just enough time to get through a single Taylor Swift song? Spoiler alert: there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. But, don’t worry. We’re going to break it all down for you in this post. 

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How Long Should I Meditate Daily?

There’s no formula for how long you can meditate. It all generally depends on what you’re looking to get out of your meditation practice. However, one thing is for sure you must be consistent.

According to Dr. Paul Greene, founder and director of the Manhattan Center for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, just 20 minutes of transcendental meditation (TM) two times a day can do wonders for your stress levels. But, if you’re feeling ambitious and can squeeze in 40-45 minutes, you’re golden! However, this is mostly recommended for mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR).

how long should i meditate

So, when will you start noticing the benefits of meditation? Honestly, it’s different for everyone. But, if you commit to your practice and find your balance, you might start seeing those results quicker than you think. You can even reward yourself with this “Balanced” crew to show just how mindful you’re becoming. 

Now, we understand that your schedules aren’t always so flexible. That’s why consistency is just as important as the actual length of your sessions. Even just 10 minutes of meditation can provide MAJOR benefits if you do it daily. Some studies even found that as little as 12 minutes of daily meditation led to cognitive improvements. To make it a little easier, you can listen to the episode of Life with Marianna, titled 15 Min Meditation: Open Up the Possibilities in Your Life to pass the time while meditating. 

So, don’t stress if you can only carve out a few minutes. Just do you. At the end of the day, it’s all about what works best for you.

How To Meditate Consistently

Find your magic number.

One of the best ways to make meditating a regular habit is by finding your magic number. And by that, we mean deciding how many minutes a day you can dedicate to your mindfulness meditation. Once again, the trick is finding what works for you. 

It’s so much easier to commit to 10 minutes a day than wondering if you should go for 20 or 30 minutes and not be able to go through with it. You should also consider your lifestyle. Are you an office 9-5er or a busy mom of 3? Then, consider blocks of time that actually work for you.

Set a daily routine.

If you want to become good at meditation, you have to make it part of your daily routine. Having a set routine makes meditating a habit rather than something you’ll “get to when you have time.” So, find a time of the day you are most likely to actually follow through. It could be right when you wake up, during your lunch break, after dinner, or before bed.

The more you integrate meditation into your day, the easier it becomes. Over time, your meditation sessions will feel as natural as scrolling through Instagram (but way more relaxing!).

Start small and build up.

Slow and steady wins the race. No one expects you to dive headfirst into an hour-long meditation on your first day. If you do that, you’ll become overwhelmed and quickly get tired of it. So, start small and take it from there.

You can start with a few minutes a day. Yes, even 5 minutes counts. Meditate for 5 minutes for a couple of days or a week. You can listen to Dear Gabby‘s episode called 5 Minute Guided Mediations that Will Change Your Life, for some inspiration to start your 5-minute sessions. Then, gradually increase your sessions to 10 minutes, 15 minutes, etc., as the weeks go by.  

The most important thing is to stay consistent. Meditating for short periods is better than getting burnt out after one big session. Soon enough, you’ll develop a routine that fits your lifestyle. And before you know it, meditation becomes less of a chore and more of a feel-good habit. It’s just like how you wouldn’t expect to run a marathon without training, right?

Choose the right technique for you.

If you’re not sure where to start, try a few different meditation techniques and see what sticks. There are so many techniques out there, from mindfulness meditation to TM and beyond. So, just figure out what feels good to you and what will best help you reach your goals. 

You can meditate for manifestation through mantra meditation by repeating soothing sounds, or movement meditations like yoga or dancing. You could even try going on nature walks while listening to the 30 Minute Walking Meditation for Manifesting, Abundance and Self-Love episode of Life with Marianna

Once you’ve found a technique that you enjoy, it’ll become easier to spend time meditating. You probably won’t even notice time passing by.  

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Find a comfortable spot.

If you’re not comfortable, you won’t stick with your meditation routine. So you have to find the perfect spot. With the right atmosphere, you’ll be way more consistent. This could be curling up by the window with a cup of tea, soaking up warm sun rays out in the garden, or cozying up in a aesthetic corner made just for the occasion.

Ideally, you want somewhere that helps you relax and get grounded. Once you’re comfy, those minutes will literally fly by. And you can take it a step further by customizing your spot and making it your designated relaxation retreat. So, throw in a soft blanket, light a candle, add some crystals or incense, and voilà, you have yourself a personal zen zone.

Use an app.

Using meditation apps is like having a personal meditation teacher in your back pocket. They help meditation become effortless. With just one click, you can have your perfect 10-minute session cued up no more stressing about what technique to try.

Examples of such apps include Calm, Healthy Minds Program, Ten Percent Happier, Headspace, and The Smiling Mind. They’re all available on Android and iOS, and some are totally free.

These apps can help you stay consistent, track your progress, and guide you with soothing voices that can make you forget you’re still on Earth. With these apps, you don’t even need to stress about what to think about when meditating. Just press play and let the app take you to your happy place.

Join a group or class.

You know how working out is more fun with friends? Meditation is no different. Sometimes, having other people who have the same goal as you can be all the determination you need to be consistent.

It can be very affirming to be surrounded by strong women like yourself who are crushing their meditation goals and achieving inner peace side by side. You can even form an accountability group and check on each other’s meditation progress. It’s easier to stay motivated when you have a group of like-minded people cheering you on.  

It’s easy to build a meditation habit that sticks.

So, how long should you meditate? The answer: it’s all about what works for you. Whether you’re clocking in a quick 20 minutes or going all out with a 2-hour sesh, just make sure you’re consistent and enjoying the journey. At the end of the day, it’s not just about the minutes of meditation, but how you feel afterward. 

While you’re setting up your new meditation routine, why not treat yourself to our Be Kind To Your Mind Tote Bag? You deserve a little something for all that consistency. But, don’t stop there. If you want more inspo on how to live your best life, head over to our Dear Media blog or check out our podcast page.

How To Organize Your Day To Be More Productive

In today’s fast-paced world, it is so easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle of your busy schedule. Sometimes, it feels like there’s not enough time in the day to get everything done. How are you supposed to work, run errands, tidy your home, pay your bills, and have any sort of social life? This is where some time-management could really come in handy! 

Mismanaging your time can make you feel disorganized, stressed, and super unproductive. Ick! But the good news is, there are tons of ways you can organize your day to be more productive!

Organizing and structuring your day can help you maximize your time, improve your focus, and get you back on the right track for achieving each and every one of your goals. And, let’s be honest, a little more time-management, productivity, and efficiency never hurt anyone!

So, let’s go over some key tips that will help you organize your day, limit distractions, and improve your overall productivity at work and at home! And for additional information about time-management, be sure to check out these 30 time-management tips for work-life balance

How To Organize Your Day To Be More Productive

Go screen-free in the morning

The best morning routine for success starts with going screen-free in the morning! Research shows that checking emails, taking phone calls, and scrolling on social media first thing in the morning can make you feel more stressed and anxious throughout the day, thus reducing your productivity. Instead of screen-time, start your day by making your bed, making a list for the day, enjoying time with your family, eating a hearty breakfast, or any other task that better prepares you for the day ahead. 

Create time blocks

An absolutely fantastic way of planning your day and staying on track is to create time blocks. Time blocking is a process in which you divide your day up into ‘blocks’ of allotted time to complete tasks. This way, you divide up your day to handle various tasks, rather than focusing on everything all at once. We recommend utilizing Google Calendar for time blocking because each day is already divided into 30 minute blocks for you to fill in. Just as an example, your time block may look a little something like:

  • 7:00 am – 8:00 am: Wake up, drink water, make bed, brush teeth
  • 8:00 am – 9:00 am: Eat breakfast and journal 
  • 10:00 am – 12:00 pm: Complete work task #1
  • 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm: Lunch 
  • 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm: Complete work task #2 
  • And so on! 

For more tips on using time blocking to maximize productivity, check out this episode of The Dream Bigger Podcast.

Set small, realistic goals

Instead of tackling whole issues or goals all at once, break down each goal into several smaller and more easily achievable goals. This will help you better organize your to-do list and make all those larger goals seem way less daunting, stressful, and overwhelming. This episode of the Him & Her Podcast on how to achieve your goals includes more practical tips to help you achieve success.

Keep a running to-do list

Keeping a running to-do list is not only beneficial when it comes to keeping track of your goals, but also for keeping track of your accomplishments. Completing items on your to-do list and physically crossing them off can be a huge motivating factor. Trust us, physically crossing goals off your list will motivate you to accomplish even more! Be sure to keep your running to-do list somewhere you will see it often so that it can remind you of your upcoming to-do’s as well as all of your recent accomplishments. 

Keep a tidy workspace

In a study conducted in 2017 on the impact of cleanliness on the productivity of employees, research proved that a clean and tidy workspace not only increases productivity and efficiency of employees, but also improves overall employee happiness, satisfaction, and self-motivation. To learn about how to design your workspace for max efficiency and organization, check out The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast: Top Celebrity & Professional Home Organizer Ria Safford on Setting A Zen Space, Organization, Minimizing Clutter, & How To Make Something Out of Nothing.

Find the routine that works best for you

When it comes to your day-to-day schedule, it’s important to find the daily routine that works best for you! Recognizing the times of the day when you are more or less productive or when your energy levels are at their highest or lowest will help you formulate the daily schedule that is the most efficient and productive for you. For tips on how to create the routine and develop the good habits that are the most beneficial to your life, take some time to listen to House Guest with Kenzie Elizabeth: Routines, Habits & How to Become Who You Want to Be and Life with Marianna: My Daily Habits + Wellness Routine.

Take small breaks often

When you’ve got a lot on your plate, a great way to stay productive without losing focus is to take breaks often. Taking several, small, 5 to 15 minute breaks throughout your day will allow you to gain clarity, avoid confusion, and clear your mind, all of which will help you achieve your final goals. This is one of many great stress management techniques you can use at work and at home. 

Identify distractions

In order to organize your day with the utmost productivity in mind, you should try to identify and minimize distractions before they take place. Luckily, there are many ways to do this! Let’s take a look at some quick tips for avoiding distractions:

  • Plan ahead for meetings/virtual conferences
  • Mute your phone during important tasks
  • Place a ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign on your office door 
  • Have water & snacks on hand 
  • Block out noise with headphones or earplugs
  • Fight the urge to multitask 

Reduce multitasking

Don’t get us wrong, multitasking is an awesome skill! But, when multitasking turns into toxic productivity, you may actually find yourself being less efficient instead of more. Instead of focusing on many tasks at once, focus on accomplishing one item at a time. This will reduce errors and forgetfulness, make you feel much more confident about your work, and greatly improve efficiency of completing your goals. 

Automate tasks where you can

To give yourself more time to focus on what really matters throughout the day, try to automate and delegate tasks where you can. This will benefit you both in the short and long term. As the old cliche states, teamwork makes the dreamwork. If your workload is causing you extra stress and reducing your productivity, try bringing someone else into the picture for assistance. For tips on delegation, be sure to check out With Whit: Siffat Haider on Delegating Work and Her 6am Routine.

Tackling tasks in order of importance

When you have a lot to accomplish, a great way to stay organized is to make a list of your goals and organize them by importance from top to bottom. This way, you know which tasks have priority over others and you can accomplish tasks in order of true importance. This will relieve a plethora of stress and anxiety as well as allow your mind to focus on actually accomplishing goals, rather than trying to remember everything in your head. To learn how to recognize the symptoms of stress and reduce them, be sure to check out The Blonde Files: Wellness Check! Health Updates, Life Hacks, Combatting Stress & More with Brian.

Go easy on yourself 

And finally, always go easy on yourself! Each day is a new opportunity to achieve your goals and not every single day must be a fabulously ultra-productive day. Some days, you will need to relax and focus on self-care, and it’s important to allow yourself this time to rest. Otherwise, you may begin to feel burnt-out, stressed, and unhappy. But don’t just take it from us! Check out Confessions Of An Overachiever, How To Re-Define Success & Stop Being So Hard On Yourself.

How will you switch up your routine to be more focused, efficient, and productive? 

The most important thing to remember about organizing your day to be more productive is that everyone’s definition of ‘a productive day’ is different. Someone’s definition of a productive day may look way more or less productive than your definition. At the end of the day, all that matters is that you were as productive as you needed to be. Comparing your productivity to someone else’s will only serve as means of distraction, rather than motivation. 

So, with all that being said, we wish you the best of luck as you organize your days for increased efficiency and focus. We hope that these tips will help guide you through the creation of your new, exciting, and productive daily routine. Plus, that you begin to see improvements in your overall life as soon as possible! For any questions or comments about daily routines and productivity, be sure to leave us a comment below! And for more blogs like this one, head on over to the Dear Media Blog!

How To Know If Someone Is Your Ride Or Die Best Friend

Have you heard about Allie and Gabe, two of our favorite, messy, and wild BFF’s from Bone, Marry, Bury? Please allow us, via this dynamic duo, to talk about friendship for a sec, namely how to know if someone is your ride or die best friend.

There are some friends that stick around for a season or two and then there are your real, ride or die friendships like Allie and Gabe’s that can last a lifetimeYou can have a multitude of “friends” or “best friends”. But, a ride or die best friend is more than that. A ride or die best friend is someone that you consider family. Someone that you know will be there for you come hell, high water, or alien invasion. 

We can’t think of a better representation of a ride or die friendship than the amazing, yet totally drama-filled, relationship between Allie and Gabe. When it comes to ride or die friendship, there is A LOT we can learn from their dynamic. So, since we’re feeling especially inspired, let’s go over some telltale signs that will help you recognize a true, ride or die best friend. 

How To Know If Someone Is Your Ride Or Die Best Friend

They’ve seen you at your best & worst. 

True friends are those people that have seen you at your best and worst, and choose to stick around! These are the friends that are there for you during your high’s and low’s, through thick and thin, and are still here to brag about it. If there’s one thing we know about Gabe, it’s that he’s been there at Allie’s worst…several times. From letting Allie move in after her eviction in Chapter 1: Meet the Players, to supporting her latest booty-call, Gabe is always a supporter. 

They pay attention.

And when we say ‘pay attention’, we mean they really pay attention. This means the friend in your life who will put their phone down when you’re talking. They actively listen, they have body language and responses that show they’re truly paying attention, and they give meaningful and honest feedback. 

You literally read each other’s minds.

If you know Allie and Gabe, then you know that they can literally read each other’s minds. Gabe just knows when Allie is up to no good…

Like Allie and Gabe, ride or die best friends are always one step ahead of each other, brainstorming the same ideas, finishing each other’s sentences, and planning similar activities. You know you have a ride or die best friend when one look from your BFF can tell you exactly what they’re thinking! 

They respect your opinions & choices.

True friends always respect your opinion, even if it differs from theirs. Allie and Gabe are THE BEST at respecting each other’s opinion and choices and being there for each other no matter the outcome…especially when it comes to Allie’s choice of men and that whole selling pot thing in Chapter 2: Job Hunting and Bathroom F*cking.

They make your friendship a priority.

Ride or die best friends always make your friendship a priority. This means that they don’t flake without a legitimate excuse and that they make time to see you in their busy schedule. Just remember that making friendship a priority goes both ways. You should always be considerate of your friends’ time. Just because someone cancels doesn’t mean they aren’t your true friend…they could be busy, dealing with a personal issue, working, etc. 

They always keep your secrets and vice versa.

If there’s one thing we know about a fake friend, it’s that they always spill your secrets. A true ride or die friend would never share your secrets, no matter what. Just don’t forget that this goes both ways! As a true friend, you should never feel the urge to share secrets or gossip about your ride or die BFF. 

They always tell the truth.

Let’s say it louder for the people in the back: TRUE FRIENDS DON’T LIE! Need we say more? But seriously, Allie and Gabe never lie to each other. This is why they are always able to work as a team and shimmy their way out of a multitude of sticky situations. 

They accept you for who you are.

Ride or die BFFs will never ask you to change who you are as a person. They will accept you for who you are and also recognize that we are all individuals with our own thoughts, opinions, and feelings. As an example of this, let’s talk about Gabe. Even though Allie is a totally messy bitch who gets herself into all kinds of hilarious situations, Gabe is always there to support her wild and crazy antics without judgment or anger. This is especially true when things take a shocking turn in Chapter 3: The Pickle Prince

They genuinely want what’s best for you.

Ride or die best friends always want what’s best for you, irregardless of other factors. They support your hopes, dreams, and desires, and find small ways to support you and your goals. This could be shouting you out on social media, helping you manifest your dream job, being a supportive sounding board, and so on. True ride or die best friends only lift you up…they never try to lead you down a bad path or stray you from your goals!

Being a ride or die best friend always goes both ways!

Okay now you know what to look for in a ride or die best friend as well as how you should treat your ride or die BFF. When it comes to Allie and Gabe from Bone, Marry, Bury, they’re totally each others’ ride or die. Even when Allie is broke and needs a pep in her step, Gabe will give her a full makeover in a high-end beauty store…even if it means getting yelled at by the employees. If that’s not true friendship, we don’t know what is. 

If you guys haven’t listened to Bone, Marry, Bury, you absolutely need to head on over to Spotify or Apple Podcasts and check it out! This good ol’ fashioned whodunnit, but podcast style, is perfect for anyone who loves a little mix of comedy and suspense. Trust us, you don’t want to miss a single second of this absolutely hilarious, R-rated, and female-driven murder fiction podcast. To check out the trailer for Bone, Marry, Bury, check below. And if you have any additional questions or comments about ride or die BBFs, feel free to drop them below!

What Is The Goal Of Meditation?

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Boss babes like us are constantly hustling, so self-care should be non-negotiable. Sometimes, we just need to take a moment to breathe. And regular meditation is one of the best ways to do that. 

People have practiced meditation for thousands of years. So, you’ve probably already heard about how relaxing and life-changing it can be if you practice it daily. 

But at some point, you’ve probably thought, “Who the hell has time for that?” Between work, keeping up with friends and family, and just trying to do life, who has time to sit quietly and think about . . . ABSOLUTELY NOTHING?!

But the thing is, if you understand the goal and value of meditation, your perspective will totally change. Once you get what meditation is about, it’ll become a lot easier to make space for it in your daily routine. And trust us, once you see the benefits, you’ll wonder how you ever lived without it.

That’s why today, we’re spilling all the tea on what the real goals of this ancient practice are so you can achieve that much-needed sense of calmness.  

What Is The Goal Of Meditation?

What Is The Goal Of Meditation?

Reduced Stress & Anxiety

Who doesn’t need a little more calm in their life? Modern life already comes with a lot of pressure, from crushing deadlines at your 9-5 to drama with your friends or just feeling burnt out.

However, one of the major benefits of meditation is that it helps you find inner peace and say goodbye to those nagging worries. How? Well, when you meditate, you learn to slow your breathing and quiet the constant chatter in your brain. If you do it regularly, you’ll give your mind a chance to relax, hit reset, and always focus on the present moment rather than worry about the future.

So the next time you feel overwhelmed from work or something else has you stressed out, commit to just 10 minutes of meditation. Or, listen to the episode of Life With Marianna, titled Meditation and Sound Bath for Anxiety and Stress. You’ll be surprised by how much calm you feel after. 

Enhanced Focus & Productivity

These days, it’s easy to feel like your brain is running in 10 different directions at once. We almost always have ENDLESS to-do lists, with a GAZILLION things to get done, and somehow, we’re supposed to stay on top of it all. So it’s very easy for our minds to wander and get distracted. 

Meditation helps you to train your mind to focus on one thing at a time. No more getting sidetracked by random thoughts or that irresistible urge to check your phone for the 100th time. You’ll be able to give your full attention to whatever needs it, which will help improve your productivity. Soon, that mountain of work will start feeling a lot more like a molehill.

Increased Happiness & Positivity

You know, the kind of “can’t-stop-smiling” joy that you’re left with after a fun weekend or when the morning coffee buzz wears off. That’s the kind of happiness that meditation brings. And, when you’re feeling good, it shows in everything you do.

So, how does this magic happen? When you meditate, you train your brain to focus on the here and now. Instead of holding on to the past or stressing about the future, you focus on the present. And, before you know it, you start noticing the little things and appreciating life more. Suddenly, you’ll start to see those silver linings a lot easier.

Meditation allows you to let go of those negative emotions that hang around like unwanted guests at a party. It conditions you to experience more joy. Eventually, you’ll level up to spreading good vibes like the sunshine babe you are!

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Enhanced Mental Clarity

Life can be one big, beautiful, chaotic mess. Sometimes, our thoughts can feel foggy and all over the place, and our brains just feel like they’re running a marathon without ever crossing the finish line. Meditation is like a mental detox for all that clutter.

Sounds perfect for us multi-tasking babes, right? After all, no one has time for mental fog when we’ve got a million things to manage every day. 

When you meditate regularly, you clear out all the mental junk, racing thoughts, and endless chatter that distract you from what really matters. It helps you slow down and actually breathe so you can see things as they are. Your thoughts flow crystal clear!

Improved Self-Awareness and Inner Peace

Have you ever wondered how on earth some people seem to have it all together (even when life throws them curve balls left and right)? Here’s the secret: meditation.

Being self-aware is about getting to know the real you. When you meditate, you block out the noise of the world and tune into your inner world. You start to notice your thoughts and how you’re feeling emotionally, mentally, and physically without judgment.

If you meditate regularly, over time, you’ll become more aware of who you are and what you want. You’ll also be able to self-reflect, and this helps you process negative emotions better, so annoying little things won’t easily ruin your mood.

Enhanced Emotional Resilience

It’s impossible to avoid stressful or unpleasant situations 100% of the time. We’ve all had those days where our emotions go through it, from raging with anger to stressing in sadness to spiraling into anxiety. And, as much as we don’t want to admit it, it can be soooo damn hard not to let our feelings completely overwhelm us sometimes!

But regular meditation practice builds your emotional resilience so you can stay cool, calm, and collected when life gets a little wild. You’re training your mind to handle stress and disappointment with calm and strength. Besides, wouldn’t it be nice to handle whatever life throws at you with more grace and bounce back faster? 

So the next time someone gets on your nerves, or you have a fight with your new boo, remember that just 10 minutes of meditation will help you keep your cool.

5 Ways To Practice Meditation

Mantra Meditation

In mantra meditation, you silently repeat a meaningful word, phrase, or sound (aka your mantra) to try and focus your mind on the present moment. The basic premise is simple: you sit comfortably, close your eyes, and focus only on silently repeating a word or short sentence over and over for the duration of your session. You can make your session however long or short you want it.

The mantra can be anything positive, calm, and meaningful to you. Some of our fave mantras are “I am enough”  or “I am peace.” Mantra meditation is a great way to meditate for manifestation because you can use phrases related to what you’re trying to manifest. You can say, “I am successful,” “Abundance flows to me,” or “Opportunities come easy to me.” You’re basically using the law of attraction to your advantage. 

Mindfulness Meditation

Mindfulness is like meditation 101. With how chaotic daily life can get, this type of meditation should be your new BFF. It helps you become more aware of your emotions, reactions, and everything around you.

Practicing mindfulness requires you to just focus on something, like your breathing. Just you, right here, right now, focusing on what’s happening and how you feel. It’s kind of like hitting pause on life’s chaos and taking a breather.

So, find a comfortable spot to sit down or lie in your bed. Then, set a timer and relax into the natural rhythm of your breath without judgment. Notice physical sensations like your belly expanding or the air breeze on your nostrils. 

When your thoughts intrude, don’t fight them. You’re not trying to push them away (because, honestly, they’ll just come back), but instead, you’re just letting them exist without letting them take over. 

Next time life gets hectic, and you just want a break from it all, try this simple mindfulness technique. Your brain will thank you for it.

Movement Meditation

Sometimes, our racing minds just need an active outlet, which is where movement meditation comes in. If you’re the kind of girl who finds it hard to sit still for traditional meditation, then this one’s for you.

This meditation aims to sync your body and mind using gentle motion. So, whether you’re walking, doing yoga, tai chi, or even having a free-flowing dance session in your living room, the goal is to focus on your body and how it feels at that moment.

Our fave method right now is walking meditation. Just put on your favorite Calma T-Shirt, grab your sneakers, hit a trail if you can, or walk through a beautiful park, and try to be fully present with each step. Try to feel the sensations in your body and listen to nature’s sounds. 

If this sounds like your jam, check out Life With Marianna‘s episode 30-Minute Walking Meditation for Manifesting, Abundance, and Self-Love ASAP! She guides you through a manifestation walk that leaves you feeling positive. 

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Transcendental Meditation (TM)

Transcendental meditation (TM) is simply about finding inner peace and calm, and honestly, who doesn’t need more of that? Unlike other forms of meditation that focus on your breath or body, transcendental meditation requires you to silently repeat a mantra for about 20 minutes, twice a day. Don’t worry about what to think when you’re meditating; just let your mantra do the work.

Sounds easy, right? That’s because it is!

TM allows your busy mind to settle freely and go into deeper states of self-awareness and inner peace. It’s almost a dreamlike state of consciousness. Personally, we find it frigging amazing for releasing built-up anxiety. There’s definitely a reason why the Beatles wanted us to give it a try! 

But before you start practicing TM, you should totally check out Will’s episode on The Mindset of A Manifestor, Culinary Alchemy, Transcendental Meditation + Self-Trust  As The New Self Care from Art of Being Well. Trust us, you’ll thank us later.

Loving-Kindness Meditation

For our babes who love surrounding themselves and others with positive energy, you’d love this! Loving-Kindness Meditation (aka metta meditation) focuses on sending out positive energy, not just to yourself, but to everyone around you, including that coworker who always eats your snacks. Yep, even them!

You sit down, close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and start by directing warm, fuzzy feelings toward yourself with phrases like, “May I be happy, may I be safe, may I be at peace.” 

Once the feeling of warmth and compassion starts to envelop you, you direct them outward—to your friends and your family. You can start with someone you’re close to. Feel the love you have for them and repeat the phrases. Then you can start including other people, one after the other.

Meditation deserves a spot on your daily to-do list.

Sometimes, modern problems require ancient solutions, and meditation helps with exactly that. It does everything from stress relief and happiness to productivity and inner peace. No wonder celebs like Gwyneth and J.Lo can’t stop gushing about their practices.

If you’re ready to take your meditation game to the next level, don’t miss out on the 5-Minute Guided Meditations that Will Change Your Life episode from Dear Gabby. You can also check out more self-care wisdom on the Dear Media blog or podcast page. You’ll find plenty more ways to nurture your mind and spark positivity.

Why Are Podcasts So Popular?

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It’s no secret that we LOVE podcasts, and we’re not the only ones. Tons of people are getting hooked on podcasts, with more and more listeners tuning in each year. In 2023, there were 76 million podcast listeners in the US, compared to 49 million in 2020. See what we mean!? People looove podcasts! So much so that many are creating their own podcasting experience and becoming podcast hosts! 

But, curious minds over here at Dear Media have been buzzing with curiosity. What is it about podcasts that have people hooked? Why does everyone have a podcast? Why are podcasts so popular? We couldn’t wait another minute to find out, and now we’re sharing what we learned. So, without further ado, let’s get into it!

Why Are Podcasts So Popular?

Why Are Podcasts So Popular?

Easy Access

Throw your hand up if you enjoy waiting. Now raise the other hand if you also love having to work extra hard just to complete a simple task. Yeahhh, us neither. So, as you can probably imagine, one of the reasons podcasts are so popular is because they’re super quick and easy to access. A couple of clicks or taps, maybe a swipe or two, and voila! 

We live in a world where instant gratification reigns supreme, and there’s no shame in loving podcasts simply because of the lack of effort required. Thanks to platforms like Apple Podcasts and Spotify, we have access to countless podcast episodes, all pretty much free of charge.

Convenience

You can listen to podcasts literally anywhere at any time. Whether you’re dealing with a long commute, working in the garden, going on a long walk, staying up late studying, or trying to motivate yourself to complete household chores, podcasts are there for you! You can always have one in your ear to keep you entertained while you do whatever it is you do!  

Genre Diversity 

Another factor contributing to the rise of podcasts is the wide range of diverse topics covered. From true crime, like Believable: The Coco Berthmann Story, and pop culture, like Not Skinny But Not Fat, to health and wellness, like The Art of Being Well, and self-help, like The Skinny Confidential Him and Her Podcast, you can find a podcast that covers whatever you’re looking for.

why are podcasts so popular

Niche Content & Community

We all crave a sense of community in that we want to feel like we belong, or at least like there are other people who share our interests. Podcasts, especially niche podcasts, make that possible, as they encourage podcast audiences to come together and bond over their unique hobbies and interests. Whether it’s on social media, in online forums, or at live podcasting events, these experiences are truly unique. 

However, a lot of listeners experience a sense of community without connecting with other listeners. For a lot of listeners, simply knowing there are others interested in the same topics and ideas is enough to feel understood, and like they’re a part of something special. To get a feel for what we mean, check out the best podcasts for women in their 20s or the best podcasts for women in their 30s. You’ll notice that, although each podcast is unique, all of them find ways to give listeners the sense of community they’re yearning for.

Entertainment 

Most of us would agree that podcasts are really f*cking entertaining! Whether you’re looking for a laugh, a temporary escape, or creative inspiration, podcasts deliver time and time again. Take it from us, we live and breathe FOR THE CONTENT (Better grab this shirt to totally embrace that) because sometimes, it’s those precious minutes spent completely absorbed in a podcast that makes everything else going on around us bearable.

Information & Education

In addition to providing entertainment, podcasts have become fantastic sources of information. There are literally millions of podcast episodes loaded with informative content across numerous subjects. This can be attributed to the vast number of experts, thought leaders, and enthusiasts who are given a platform from which to share their knowledge. But, what really sets podcasting apart from other types of media is the approach. Podcasts are great at making even the most complex information easier to understand and, in many cases, fun to learn! (BTW, there are a lot of benefits of podcasts for learning!)

Most Popular Podcast Niches

Most Popular Podcast Niches

Below are the most popular podcast genres in the US and the percentage of US podcast listeners who tune into each one:

  • Comedy – 22%
  • News – 21%
  • True Crime – 18%
  • Sports – 17%
  • Health/Fitness – 17%
  • Religion/Faith – 16%
  • Politics – 16%
  • Self-Help/Productivity – 15%
  • Finance – 13%
  • Scripted Comedy – 11%
  • Game Show – 10%
  • Pop Culture – 9%
  • Scripted Drama – 8%
The future of podcasting is bright!

If you’re not yet one of the millions of podcast listeners, here’s your sign. Podcasts are so popular for good reasons, and there’s no better time than now to discover them for yourself. If you’re not sure where to start, check out our list of new podcasts to binge. Or browse the Dear Media show catalog. Then, for even more insight into podcasting, head over to the blog!

The Best Way To Record A Podcast Remotely

In the last few years, recording a podcast remotely has become one of the most essential skills for content creation! Remote recording has allowed podcasters all over the world to connect and continue having intriguing conversations that otherwise might not have been possible. Recording remotely is not only super practical but it’s also an easy, cost-efficient, and time-saving way to create awesome content with your guests!

With that being said, it can take some time to get in the full swing of remote interviewing and it can sometimes be tricky to get great sounding interviews when recording from such long distances. But, don’t worry! Here at Dear Media, we have everything you need to know about recording a podcast from how to name a podcast to how to monetize your podcast, and more! So, let’s go over some super helpful tips on how to record high-quality audio remotely!

The Best Way To Record A Podcast Remotely

When it comes to remote podcasting, there are several ways you can record a podcast from anywhere in the world. You can:

  • Record each person separately and match up the audio later
  • Try recording using a video conferencing software (Zoom)
  • Record via phone with the use of a mixer
  • Opt to record using a remote podcast recording platform

Some things to keep in mind when deciding how to record your podcast remotely are your equipment, your financial situation, your ability to navigate editing software, and ultimately, your preference.

Here at Dear Media, we recommend using a remote podcast recording platform. Remote podcasting platforms offer recording interfaces to ensure the highest-quality audio file every time, including when you record video, in addition to providing lag and internet loss protection, double-ender recording, easy streaming to social media platforms, and bandwidth for up to 4-8 guests. Most importantly, remote recording platforms are super affordable and can save you so much time and energy editing post production.

Top-rated remote podcast recording platforms include:

How To Record A Podcast Remotely

Invest in the right equipment

Recording a high-quality podcast, whether local or remote, requires an initial investment in quality equipment. This equipment includes a computer, a microphone, noise-canceling headphones, equipment/supplies for a recording space or studio, and so on.

Investing in good-quality equipment will increase your audio-quality tremendously by allowing you to pick up sound better and by reducing audio mishaps. You can find more information about each piece of necessary equipment & associated technology here: What Do You Need To Start a Podcast!

Find/create a quality recording space

Finding or creating a quality recording space for remote interviewing is the next step to recording an awesome remote podcast! You can accomplish this by renting a studio or creating a podcast studio in your home.

Renting a studio is a good option for those that prefer a studio outside the home or for those with minimal space to spare at home. Pros and cons of renting a studio include:

  • Pros:
    • Quiet space outside the home to record
    • Access to some equipment in studio
    • Minimal investment in studio space
  • Cons:
    • Rental times and rates vary
    • Competition for space and availability
    • Limited time for recordings

Creating a recording studio at home is a good option for those with an extra room or office at home and for those that want the freedom to record at any time. By investing in the right technology and some simple soundproofing equipment, you can have a recording studio in your home in no time! To learn how to set up a podcast studio right in your home: How To Setup a Podcast Studio.

Get the recording software that’s right for you

Each and every remote recording software is different and has different capabilities that set it apart from others. When choosing which remote recording software to use, be sure to research each option and choose the option that best matches your goals and desires. Working with the recording software that’s right for you will make getting the best audio quality possible so much easier and could reduce hours of editing time on the backside. Let’s take a quick look at some different remote recording software:

RiversideFM
  • Pricing starts at $7.50/month
  • Easily live-stream to social media platforms
  • Live “call-in” or phone call capabilities
  • Automatically records each user locally on a separate track
Spreaker
  • Pricing starts at $8/month
  • Easy upload to iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts
  • Enhanced privacy
SquadCast
  • Pricing starts at $10/month
  • 7-day free trial
  • Easy transfer of recordings with Dropbox
Zencastr
  • Pricing starts at $20/month
  • 14-day free trial
  • No time limits, recording limits, or upload limits
Alitu
  • Pricing starts at $32/month
  • 7-day free trial
  • Includes educational courses, editing capabilities

Choose the right podcasting technique

Before recording your first remote podcast, be sure that you’ve got your unique style and technique down-pat! This will ensure that your recording is smooth and fluid. Ask yourself questions like: Will you record separately or will you use a remote recording software? How will you structure your podcast episodes? Will you record solo podcasts, interviews, or roundtables? Will you host special podcast guests, experts, or friends? For more information about technique, check out these super helpful Dear Media blogs:

Ensure a stable internet connection

When it comes to recording remotely, as opposed to audio tracks that are record locally, ensuring a stable internet connection is absolutely essential! This will improve sound quality, reduce editing time, and make for a better recording experience overall. The good news is, there are several ways to ensure a stable internet connection. Let’s take a quick look at some ways to ensure a strong, secure, and stable internet connection while recording remotely:

  • Hardwire your connection
  • Purchase a quality internet plan
  • Position your router closeby
  • Keep your router & other technology updated
  • Use a WiFi extender or booster
  • Shut down or remove other devices during recording sessions
Getting ready for your first remote podcast?

Here at Dear Media, we hope you’ve found this information about recording a podcast remotely super helpful! We strive to share all the best tips on everything you need to know to launch your podcast, from beginning to end. From writing podcast summaries to measuring podcast performance and everything in between, we’ve got the answers to all your podcasting questions!

So for more blogs like this one, head on over to Dear Media. And if you have any additional questions, comments, or podcasting topics you’d like to discuss, be sure to drop them below! Good luck recording and talk soon!

Catchy & Cool: 50+ Ideas For Podcast Names

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Okay, so maybe it’s not as big of a deal as naming, like, a newborn… but naming your podcast is still a pretty big deal. After all, your podcast is sort of like your baby, right? Coming up with a name is one of the key steps you need to consider before launching a podcast. Your podcast name can give your target audience an idea of what to expect from your podcast. But, choosing a podcast name can be tricky and overwhelming. So, today we’re sharing a round-up of ideas for podcast names that are both memorable and meaningful.

ideas for podcast names

50+ Ideas For Podcast Names

  • Convos Unplugged
  • Igniting Ideas
  • Power Hour
  • Minds Over Matters
  • Sparking Connections
  • Retro Raves
  • Technic Talks
  • Marvelous Musings
  • Stylish Stories
  • Style Faux Pas
  • Magical Memoirs
  • Crazed Curiosity
  • Geeks Gabbing
  • Getting That Bread
  • Skillionaires
  • Gamer’s Gauntlet
  • Amusing Tunes
  • Quirky Questions
  • Playful Paws
  • Pawsitively Pawsome
  • Feline Fanatics
  • Sports Retorts
  • Sew Good
  • Bubbly Banter
  • Girly Giggles
  • The Faux Code
  • Thoughtful Threads
  • Quill Spill
  • Eerie Inklings
  • Laughs and Lollipops
  • Notable Notations
  • Perky Jerks
  • Brainstorming Broad
  • Bashful Banter
  • News To Me & You
  • Clap Please
  • Laugh Track
  • LMBO!
  • Breaths Of Fresh Air
  • Social Anxiety
  • C.E.O Yes!
  • Odd Minds Think Alike
  • K’s Kreative Korner
  • Or So We Heard
  • One Cool Mom
  • Hello, 911
  • Willing To Bet
  • Winning Record
  • Views From The Nosebleeds
  • Play Harder
  • Witness To Fitness

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How To Come Up With A Podcast Name

Consider your audience.

As you come up with a name for your podcast, think about the audience you’re hoping to appeal to. A catchy podcast name will get the attention of the right people. For example, if you’re planning to host a pop culture podcast, you might want to include terms related to celebrities, social media, or entertainment in your podcast name. This will make it easier to attract new listeners who are browsing podcasts for their next listen.

Keep it short & easy to pronounce.

Everyone loves a good pun or a funny play on words, but when you start to get a little too creative, it can be too much for people to remember or even understand. You also want people to be able to find your podcast easily. Your best bet is to come up with a podcast name that is short, simple, and easy to pronounce. Plus, you’re going to be saying it a lot, and hopefully others are too. You wouldn’t want to choke on a mouthful of words day after day, would you?  

Make it unique.

There are over 3 million podcasts in the world which makes it that much harder to come up with a unique podcast title. But the perfect name for your podcast is one that hasn’t been used half a dozen times already. 

However, if you decide on a podcast name and then find out someone else is using the same name, it’s not the end of the world. You shouldn’t run into any major issues, but it might cause some confusion among listeners. Rather than starting all over, see if you can tweak the name a bit to make it unique. If you can’t, consider using your next favorite name idea. It’ll save you a headache in the long run.

how to come up with a podcast name

Use relevant search terms.

It’s also important to use a podcast name that includes a word people in your niche often search for. We recommend using a keyword tool, like Google Keyword Planner, to search for keywords that fit your podcast niche. It’ll tell you how many people are searching for each keyword you look up, so you can get a better idea of how many people are interested in that topic! The more people that are interested, the better! Then, when you use that keyword in your podcast title, you’ll get traffic at no cost to you! Speaking of traffic, check out our post on podcast tips for beginners for more ways to get listeners!

Try a free podcast name generator.

TBH, we don’t love the idea of using a free podcast name generator to come up with a name for your podcast, but they can give you great ideas or inspiration to work with. Think of a name generator as a tool to help you get through writer’s block. You probably don’t want to copy and paste the results, rather you can read through the suggestions and see if it sparks any ideas. 

What are you thinking about naming your podcast?

Once you come up with a podcast name, you’re ready for the next step. Be sure to read our post What Do You Need To Start A Podcast to ensure you check all the boxes! Then, grab one of these “I talk about you on my podcast” tees to spark even more conversation about your new endeavor! Oh, and don’t forget to listen to a real superstar on how she made podcasting a full-time gig in this episode of Balanced Black Girl!

And if you’re looking for more inspiration, head over to the Dear Media blog for all the info you need for getting your podcast up and running, as well as maintaining its success!

8 Dating App Conversation Starters

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Dating apps, for many introverted girlies, are like a breath of fresh air. These apps have changed the dating game and made it easier to put yourself out there and meet cuties. Who would’ve thought a few years ago that meeting new people could be as easy as swiping left and right? But here we are!

It’s exciting to have the convenience of having romance at your fingertips 24/7. BUT and this is a big but, starting a conversation with someone you’ve never met face-to-face can be SO HARD!! You’ve matched with someone who might tick all your boxes. Then . . . what on earth do you say?

Now, you’ll want to make your first message count because it’s your one shot to make a killer first impression and maybe meet “The One.” This means that your opening line has to be on point.

So, what’s a girl to do? Don’t worry! We’ve got you. Today, we’ll share our roundup of conversation starters to help you skip the awkward small talk and get that phone number ASAP!  

Let’s jump in!
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How To Start A Conversation On A Dating App

Starting a conversation on a dating app can feel like stepping into a spotlight. But guess what? You’re actually the star of this show. It’s your chance to show off your personality, make a connection, and see if there’s any chemistry between you and your match.

Here are a few ways to make that first move a little easier:

  • Be Yourself: It might sound cliché, but nothing puts people off faster than someone being fake. You don’t need to try too hard, lie, or come up with a cheesy scripted line. Just be genuine. The right person will appreciate you for who you are.
  • Keep it Light and Fun: Your first message should be friendly and approachable. A little humor can go a long way in making a great first impression.
  • Be Confident: Don’t overthink it. The person you’re messaging is likely just as eager to connect or nervous as you are. Besides, if you sometimes find it hard to make friends with social anxiety, starting a conversation online can be a lot easier than doing it in person.

Overall, just be natural, express what interests you, be genuinely interested in your match, and let the conversation flow freely from there. Lindsey from We Met at Acme has some more dating app tips you can listen to on How To Crush It On Dating Apps ft. Bre and Shelby

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8 Dating App Conversation Starters

Play a “Would you rather?” game.

A “Would you rather?” game is a great way to break the ice. It sets the tone for a playful back-and-forth that can quickly lead to laughs and a few surprises. 

Besides, it’s an easy way to share more about yourselves in a way that feels natural rather than forced. Their answers to silly scenarios can reveal different sides to their personalities, including their likes and dislikes.

Some questions you could use include:

  • “Would you rather travel to the past or future? And why?
  • “Would you rather everyone hear your thoughts or livestream everything you do for the rest of your life?”
  • “If you could have any superpower for a day, would you rather be able to fly or be invisible?”
  • “Would you rather give up music or movies for the rest of your life?”

The beauty of “Would you rather?” questions are how quickly they can lead the conversation in different directions. 

Compliment something on their profile.

People love to be seen, and what better way to make someone feel seen than by going through their profile to understand who they are? Complimenting something on their profile works like a charm. It shows that you’re genuinely interested in them since you took the time to check their bio. 

It could be a hobby they’ve mentioned, their favorite song, a travel destination they’ve been to, or simply how they’ve worded their bio. Pet owners often love talking about their furry friends. So, if they mentioned their pet in their profile, that could be a good opening. 

Or, if they have a photo from their recent trip to Bali, you could start with something like, “That Bali pic is stunning! How was the trip?” This compliments their picture and gives them a chance to share a story.

Share something quirky about yourself.

This is a fun and playful way to strike up a convo without being overly serious. Dropping a random fun fact or unique talent in your first message shows you have personality—and personality is downright irresistible! 

Why is this such a good conversation starter? Because it shows you’re real. We all have our quirks, and sharing them shows you’re comfortable in your own skin. It also invites your match to open up and share something fun about themselves. 

You could kick things off with something like, “I can solve a Rubik’s cube in under a minute. It’s weirdly relaxing!” Or “Fun fact: I can’t start my day without dancing to my favorite Ariana Grande playlist even if I’m still half asleep!” This sets a playful tone for the conversation. Plus, it’s a great way to say, “Hey, I’m fun, and I don’t take myself too seriously.”

Comment on a shared interest.

There’s nothing like bonding over something you both love to get the conversation flowing and the sparks flying. Starting with a shared interest is like hitting the sweet spot in a conversation. It’s familiar, comfortable, and can lead to an instant connection.

Doing this gives you both something to talk about that means something to you. So rather than beating around the bush, you can have a conversation that’s engaging and genuine rather than awkward and forced.

For example, if you both mentioned your love for running in your profiles. You could kick things off by saying, “I see we’re both into running! What’s the longest distance you’ve done?”

Ask open-ended questions.

You should ask open-ended questions when you want to keep the conversation rolling and really get to know someone beyond the basics. Unlike yes-or-no questions that can lead to dead-ends, open-ended questions allow your match to share more about themselves. Plus, a well-thought-out question shows you’re actually interested in connecting. 

So, instead of asking, “Do you like to travel?” (which would obviously lead to a boring “yes” or “no”), try something like, “If you could hop on a plane to anywhere right now, where would you go and why?” Or “What’s the most interesting thing you’ve learned recently?” You could even ask if they have a bucket list and which things they’d ones they’s ticked off.

Now, if you notice they aren’t responding with more than one-word answers, it might be a sign they’re not putting in as much effort. They should also be interested in asking you open-ended questions, too. If not, move on to your next match.

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Start with a funny icebreaker.

Nothing melts away that initial awkwardness like a good laugh. Humor is always an excellent conversation starter; it shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously and are here to have fun. Besides, who doesn’t love to laugh? 

Funny icebreakers show off your personality right away. People are intrigued by someone who can find humor in everyday moments. Plus, cracking a joke requires confidence—two major green flags in one fell swoop! Major points for you.

Starting with a joke also helps you weed out people who aren’t on the same wavelength as you. If they don’t appreciate your sense of humor, it might not be the best match, anyway. 

But, if they come back with a witty response of their own? You’ve just found someone who can keep up with your banter. And that’s a promising start to any relationship.

Ask what they want in a partner.

If you want to cut right to the chase, ask them a question about their dream partner. It might sound bold, but hey, fortune favors the brave, right? 

Asking them what they want in a partner shows you’re there to find someone who aligns with your values and goals. After all, you’re not here to waste time with people who aren’t on the same page.

Start with something like, “So, what’s your idea of the perfect partner? I’m curious what really matters to you in a relationship.” You could also say, “If you could describe your ideal long-term relationship in three words, what would they be?”

These questions cut through the fluff and get straight to what they’re looking for. And trust us, in online dating, that can be super refreshing.

Suggest meeting in person.

We’ll tell you the truth: suggesting a meetup to someone you’ve just met online can be a REALLY REALLY (two for emphasis) bold move. And, it might not work for everyone.

However, it’s confident and shows you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them beyond the screen. It shows initiative. And, some guys love women who make the first move. Our girl Molly at Lipstick on the Rim gives her take on this in On Dating In Today’s Era, Sex On The First Date, & Why You Should Make The First Move.

If you’ve been vibing with someone on a dating app sparks are flying, chemistry is just right, what do you have to lose? Absolutely nothing! Besides, you’d have to know sooner or later if the chemistry translates IRL. Their response will also tell you if they are actually interested or not.

So, say something like, “We’ve had some good conversations. How about we continue this over coffee sometime?” Or “This chat has me craving boba. We should go sometime!”

Send that first message like a pro!

We’ve given you a gold mine of dating app conversation starters that are tried and true. Now it’s time to get out there and put them to work! Want more ideas? Listen to the We Met At Acme episode Dating App Prompts, Anti-Ghost Texts, and What Matters When Sliding Into DMs.

Let us know in the comments which one of these you used and how it went.

You can also head over to our Dear Media blog and podcast catalog for more dating dos and don’ts. And while you’re at it, check out some of our killer merch items that are basically made for your dating app adventures. Like this Don’t Text First Tote (a gentle reminder to let them make the first move once in a while) or the Please Don’t Ask Crew (if you like to keep it mysterious).

Can You Do A Solo Podcast?

The podcasting world has grown so much over the last few years and nowadays, there are various ways you can format a podcast. There are sooo many types of podcasts, including solo podcasts, interview podcasts, co-hosted conversational podcasts, roundtable podcasts, narrative podcasts, and even scripted murder mystery podcasts. Such a huge variety!

So, the question of the day is: can you do a solo podcast? Well, the short answer is…of course you can! Podcasts are becoming more and more popular every single day, so it’s no wonder that you might be thinking about starting one yourself. And if so, you’ve totally come to the right place! Here at Dear Media, we know a little something about podcasting and we’re here to answer alllll your questions about starting a solo podcast!

Can You Do A Solo Podcast?

The answer is YES. Solo podcasts are wildly successful and you can totally do it! Okay guys, let’s get right down to it: if you’ve been dreaming of starting a solo podcast, your dream might be closer to reality than you think! There are tons of successful solo podcasts out there like Mona-Vated, Stassi, Barely Filtered, and so many more!

Starting a solo podcast is a fantastic way to get the ball rolling and see if podcasting is something you’re actually interested in doing long-term. In fact, starting a solo podcast might even be the easiest route to take at first…this way you can make absolutely sure that you enjoy being on this side of the microphone!

Plus, you don’t have to stick to a solo podcast format forever. As you grow your podcast, you may want to try your hand at interviewing, co-hosting, or roundtable conversations. Solo podcasting opens up a lot of room for thought and realization and it’s really common for solo podcasters to evolve, host their own shows, co host occasionally, and bring on guests regularly. So you can mix it up. In reality, it’s all about getting the most out of your podcast and choosing whichever podcast format you enjoy most!

So, with that being said, there is a lot to consider before you create a solo podcast. Let’s take a quick look at some suuuper helpful tips to keep in mind as you move forward with your solo podcast!

What To Consider When Starting A Solo Podcast

How will you come up with topics?

Coming up with a podcast idea is one thing, but coming up with topics for each episode is a whole different ballgame. As a solo host, it can sometimes be hard to brainstorm, research, and prepare podcast topics to discuss on a regular basis. Take some time to think about whether or not you can consistently come up with new and awesome solo podcast ideas, or whether you’d prefer to have a co-host or team that could contribute to the creation of new ideas.

Are you knowledgeable about your topics?

When it comes to podcasting, listeners need to feel like they can trust their host. So, it’s important to ask yourself: Am I an expert about this subject? Do I know enough about this subject to lead a conversation about it? Can I provide any additional insights or share my point of view about this topic? For example, Dr. Will Cole, podcast host of The Art of Being Well, leading expert on functional medicine and best-selling author, is an expert in his field which has helped make his podcast that much more successful and trustworthy.

Do you have an interesting point of view?

Successful podcasters are, at the very least, interesting to listen to. As a solo podcaster, your point of view is very important because it is what draws listeners in and keeps them coming back for more. Before recording your first podcast, be sure to consider your point of view and make sure that you’re ready to share your thoughts and opinions with potential listeners! For an example of a solo podcast host with an interesting, entertaining, and unique point of view, take some time to check out Absolutely Not! with Heather McMahan.

Can you speak for a whole episode?

Depending on the podcast, episodes can last anywhere from 15 minutes to 2-3 hours – wow! But, what’s important to remember here is that, as a solo host, you’ll be the only person talking the entire time. Be sure to consider how long you feel comfortable talking. Talking to a microphone is a lot different than talking to a friend, but sounding natural and engaging is crucial to the success of your solo podcast. Listeners want to feel like they have some kind of intimate connection with you. Also, think about whether you have enough content, knowledge, and topics to create a full solo podcast episode on your own.

How many episodes/seasons can you record?

It’s also important to consider how many episodes or seasons you think you could record alone. Are you prepared to create whole seasons of content by yourself? Or would you rather have an occasional interview, a co-host, or a team of people to assist with content creation? Violet Benson, host of Almost Adulting, is a great example of a podcast host who easily creates content on her own, but who also occasionally brings in special guests, experts, and friends to fill time and create more awesome episodes!

Are you prepared for the workload?

From researching topics and creating episode outlines to recording, editing, and marketing each episode on social media and beyond, podcasting can be A LOT of work for just one person. Be sure to consider the amount of time you have to devote to podcasting and if you’re willing to take on this type of workload!

Do you have the motivation?

Starting a podcast by yourself can require a ton of self-motivation! Without a co-host or team for support, you have to complete each and every task on your own. And to some people, this can seem super daunting. Before you start a podcast on your own, just be sure that you’ve got the time and motivation to see your dream through!

Do you have access to a podcast studio?

This is such an important question for all new podcastsers, especially solo hosts. Figuring out where and how you will record your podcast episodes is one of the biggest considerations for starting a podcast. Luckily, there are many options to consider for how you will record your podcast. You can rent a studio, set up your own podcast studio, or work with a producing company that can help you find the resources you need. Having a dedicated space to do your thing is essential to making podcasts work!

Are you financially prepared for an investment in podcasting?

Investing in podcasting equipment, technology, editing software, and more doesn’t have to break the bank. But, at the end of the day, it can still require a substantial upfront investment, especially if you’re planning to incur all the costs by yourself. Be sure to take some time to research costs and prepare yourself financially for the creation of your podcast!

Are you ready to do it ALL?

And lastly, are you mentally, physically, and financially prepared to do it ALL? Starting a podcast by yourself is totally doable and we definitely encourage you to give it a try! There are sooo many successful solo podcasters out there and you can totally be one too! Just be sure that you’re ready to take on everything from planning and scheduling to recording and releasing each and every episode on your own.

For more information about alllll things podcasting…

Here at Dear Media, we love sharing all the best tips and tricks for becoming the absolute best podcaster you can be! From How to Write a Good Podcast Description to Ways to Promote Your Podcast and How to Measure Your Podcast Performance, we’ve totally got you covered! For beginners, we also highly recommend checking out Everything You Need to Launch Your Podcast and How to Title Podcast Episodes! We hope you guys found this blog post super helpful and we wish you the best of luck starting your podcast! And as always, don’t be afraid to drop your favorite solo podcasts below along with any questions or comments you might still have!

13 Podcast Topics To Talk About With Friends: Get Your Listeners Obsessed!

podcast topics to talk about with friends

Starting a podcast with your BFFs sounds like a total dream. Podcasting with friends is simply hitting the record button on conversations you already have over brunch or girls’ nights. Except that now, other people actually want to listen in. 

BUT it’s not as simple as it sounds. It can be nerve-wracking to find fresh topics to discuss every time. Sure, you and your bestie could talk for hours about anything, but finding fun and relatable topics is not always easy. 

However, as your resident podcasting gurus, we’re sharing some interesting podcast topic ideas that will make your listeners hit that subscribe button faster than they can say “obsessed.” 

So grab your BFFs cos your pod is about to blow TF up!!

podcast topics to talk about with friends

13 Podcast Topics To Talk About With Friends: Get Your Listeners Obsessed!

Self-Help or How-To Advice

Everyone needs a little pick-me-up sometime. So why not offer some AMAZING self-help or how-to advice on your podcast? It could be anything from getting rid of stress to how to start a music career or even money hacks. Just think of anything you or your friend ever needed help with and discuss how you solved or overcame it.

You don’t even need to be an expert on the subject matter (although it’d help if you knew a little about what you want to discuss.) You can even have listeners submit questions and answer them on your show.

Need some inspo??? Here are some of THE BEST self-help podcasts out there!

A Day in The Life

A good ol’ day-in-my-life episode never gets old. We all looove a sneak peek into someone else’s daily routine. Social media influencers do them, so you and your bestie can jump on the trend for your podcast as well.

You can talk about how you snoozed your alarm about seven times before finally dragging yourself out of bed or how your yoga routine somehow turned into a twerk routine. You’ll be amazed at how easy (or downright chaotic) both your daily routines are. It could be insightful or seriously funny.

Day-in-the-life discussions work well because they are sooo relatable and full of little life hacks. 

Movies and TV Shows Reviews

It doesn’t take any special skills to review a movie or TV show. Besides, you already do that during your girls’ night in, dissecting the plot of your favorite movies or TV shows. So, why not do the same on your podcast?

Movie reviews are fun and the perfect excuse to indulge in your favorite binge-watching habit. All you have to do is discuss what you feel about the movie or TV show. Your friend might be obsessed with analyzing every little detail while you’re simply obsessed with the romantic scene between Jack and Rose in the Titanic. Whatever your style is, your listeners will love knowing your thoughts and unfiltered opinions.

Still unsure about doing a movie review? This podcast episode of Twenty Whatever about Disney Channel Original Movies will do the convincing. 

Travel Adventures

If you and your friend are adventurous girlies who love to travel, or you simply have a lot of destinations on your bucket list, this is the perfect topic for your travel podcast. We love living vicariously through others, so when you share your adventures, you LITERALLY give your listeners a taste of the world.

Whether you’re gushing over the breathtaking mountaintops of Peru or the clear, blue waters of the Maldives, these episodes are like mini-vacations for your listeners. You can reminisce about the rowdy airports, delicious food, city layovers gone wrong, or your new city one-night stands. Remember to share any helpful travel tips, hacks, or dream destinations. You never know who you’ll inspire to also plan a trip.

To help you get started, listen to Travel Hacks and Travel Bugs, Tips, and Tricks for Travel by Him & Her and find out why listeners would love this topic.

Funny Stories

You and your bestie probably already crack each other up. So, you won’t have any problem doing the same on your podcast. One thing that listeners love is hearing about other people’s crazy stories. The crazier they are, the better!

Relive your epic drunken dances gone wrong, nights out with the girls that turned kinda nuts, and hilarious recipe fails you miraculously survived to tell, and you’d have your listeners in stitches from the sheer ridiculousness. You can also make a game out of it by asking each other fun interview questions.

An episode packed with funny stories would be a blast to record, and your listeners would feel like they’re in on the joke, too. But, don’t forget to snag this Funny For A Girl Crew sweatshirt for you and your bestie to slay during your recording session.

Fashion and Beauty Inspo

Fashion and beauty? Count us in!! Nothing excites us girls more than talking about the hottest outfits straight off the runway, the latest makeup looks on TikTok, or skincare hacks from around the globe. So, a podcast episode on beauty and fashion is a no-brainer.

Your listeners will love hearing about your favorite pieces for the summer or wardrobe essentials you think every girl should have, or just giving out helpful beauty tips. You can make it a little more interesting by conducting giveaways for some fashion and beauty items on the show. You’ll have your listeners begging for more. (Plus, maybe a brand sponsorship is in your future???)

Listen to Olivia Perez of Let’s Get Dressed dish out a few fashion tips in 9 New Styling Hacks I Brought Back From A Week in Paris. Or dive into Molly’s 30 Tips You Never Knew You Needed From VIP Skincare Expert on Lipstick on the Rim. You’ll learn a thing or two from these beauty and fashion episodes. 

Love, Sex, and Relationships

Spice up your next podcast by bringing all the juicy deets about love, sex, and relationships. These topics will always be a hit because everyone has a story, an opinion, or some wisdom to share. When you’re talking about love, whether it’s a soul-crushing heartbreak, an awkward first date, or the first kiss that gave you butterflies, there’s bound to be lots of laughter and relatable moments.

Sex, on the other hand, is where things get hotter. But a little heat never hurt anyone. When you and your friends talk openly and honestly about sex, you’re not just giving advice; you’re creating a safe space for your listeners. Plus, you can mix in some banter to make it feel less intimidating.

If you want a serious lesson on how to get super confident talking about sex and relationships in your podcast, listen to Ex Virgin. Nothing is off the table with Carter Cruise!!! 

True Crime

There’s something chilling but captivating about diving into real-life mysteries and unsolved cases. Many of us love playing detective, so this genre is our guilty pleasure. And when you break it down with friends, your podcast becomes binge-worthy. So, true crime will for sure make a really good podcast topic.

True crime topics might be a bit dark, but you can keep it lively and engaging by discussing why it’s trending on social media or how another news podcast inspired it. You can encourage listeners to share their own theories, ask thought-provoking questions, or maybe do a live episode where they can join the conversation. 

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Celebrity Scoop and Pop-Culture

Think about how much fun you have talking about the juiciest celebrity gossip and pop culture trends with your friends. Now, do the same thing, but on a podcast. With celebrity gossip, no take is off limits, and no opinion is too controversial.

Hollywood constantly gives us new material: shocking breakups, PR stunts, or a “Did she really wear that?” red carpet moment. So, there’s always new content. All you and your besties have to do is gather the wildest stories and discuss.

Check out Kim vs Kourtney, Scary Movies, and Our Fall Faves, and Pop Culture Moments that Live in Our Heads Rent Free from our girls over at Twenty Whatever for some inspiration. Or, you can get your inspo from the pop culture queen herself: Amanda Hirsch of Not Skinny But Not Fat

Top 10 Rankings

Imagine coming up with totally random categories for you and your friends to rank your top favorites like best rom-com kisses, dream vacation spots, or celebrity crushes. The opinions will have you constantly yelling, “NO WAY, YOU TAKE THAT BACK!” But, the conversation and disagreements will flow and make for a really good podcast episode. 

You’ll have a total blast ranking your top 10 of anything since you’ll each have to defend your choices. The best part? Everyone’s list is different, so there’s always room for fun conversation, a few surprises, and maybe even a little playful shade-throwing. And your list doesn’t even have to stop at 10. You can rank as high or low as you want. 

Personal Stories

You can’t go wrong discussing your personal stories on your podcast. This always comes in handy when you and your friends can’t think of anything else. 

You can just sit and laugh together about funny and awkward experiences; discuss significant life events like graduations, weddings, or moving to a new city; or open up about something you’ve struggled with. You can even compare what’s on each other’s bucket lists.

Sharing your personal stories makes your podcast heartwarming, hilarious, and totally relatable; your listeners will feel like they’re a part of your inner circle and your experiences. If you want to take it further, encourage them to share theirs and feature a few in one episode.

Listen to Victoria share her eating disorder story in this episode of the Real Pod, or the girls at Twenty Whatever share their Embarrassing Childhood Stories. You’ll get motivated to share your personal stories, too. 

Mental Health and Wellness

Mental health and wellness are topics that EVERYONE needs to be talking about, especially with your besties. Because sometimes these conversations are exactly what you need to hear. 

Talking about mental health and wellness with your friends on a podcast allows you to share your experiences and learn from others. It creates a safe space for your listeners and makes the heavy stuff feel a little lighter.

You can talk about your favorite workouts, fitness goals, and challenges. Or share your self-care routines, health recipes, cooking tips, mental health tips, and wellness practices. You can also bring in mental health and wellness experts to give some professional advice.

Wellness Her Way and The Heal Podcast have some really good episodes on these topics. So be sure to check them out for some inspiration.

Work-Life Balance

If you’re looking for business podcast topics your audience will love, work-life balance is where it’s at! With today’s hustle culture, there are so many career girlies that could use some helpful advice. Hearing how other women juggle their work and personal lives while still maintaining their sanity (which isn’t easy BTW) can be very reassuring.

Because sometimes, between our careers, social life, relationships, or just finding time for yourself, it can be frigging hard. So, when you have this conversation with your friends, you’re guaranteed to have a conversation that’s relatable and full of teachable moments.

The Career Contessa and The Work Party are great podcasts for inspo on work-life balance topics. Be sure to check them out!

how to choose a podcast topic

How To Choose A Podcast Topic

Brainstorm with your friends.

Grab your friends and some coffee (or wine) and bounce ideas off each other. Before the brainstorming session, you can ask your friends to come up with topics. You’ll be surprised at how many ideas flow between you guys. 

When you’re brainstorming with friends, there are no wrong answers. Everything is a potential topic for a successful podcast. So, write down every idea you or your friends have and then narrow them down to the ones you’re most passionate about. 

Think of what you have in common.

One of the easiest ways to come up with podcast content is by figuring out what you and your friends have in common. You could all love sharing ghost stories, or maybe you’re all foodies who love hitting up the latest local spots. Whatever it is, that shared passion is your podcast gold. 

When you and your friends are genuinely into a topic, it shows. Your excitement is contagious because you could go on about it for hours. And your listeners will pick up on that energy.  

Consider your audience.

If you’re going to create a podcast with friends, here’s a golden rule: always consider your target audience. Before you hit that record button, you need to think about who your listeners are and what will keep them coming back for more.

Start by asking yourself who these people are. Are they looking for health tips? Are they movie aficionados? Or, are they career women looking for work and business tips or moms looking for help with parenting? Whoever they are, your listeners have their own interests, and it’s your job to tap into it. 

Consider what is trending.

If you want to keep your podcast fresh and entertaining, then you’ve got to have your finger on what’s hot right now. Your listeners will love you for it. Go on TikTok, Instagram, or X, search for the hottest trending topics, and give your takes on them. Easy peasy!

Besides, when you create content around current events, you’re more likely to get noticed by people searching for those topics. Imagine your podcast episode going viral because you were one of the first to weigh in on the latest hot topic major podcast goals right there!  

When you become viral sensations, remember to show yourselves some love by snagging this Going Viral t-shirt for you and your friends. 

Ask your audience to send in their suggestions.

Sometimes, the best ideas don’t come from you; they come directly from the listeners. Yes, we said it! What better way to get fresh topics for your podcast than asking your audience what they want to hear? It’s the easiest way to know what your listeners want and keep them coming back. Simply drop the question on social media and watch your comments flood with suggestions. 

Turn these topics into podcast gold!

We hope these topics have sparked some ideas for your next podcast episode with friends. Trust us! These topics will keep listeners glued and begging for more. Just bring your good vibes and positive energy to the mic.

If you need more inspo for podcast topic ideas, head over to Dear Media. You’ll find more helpful posts to help you decide what to talk about on your podcast as well as a STELLAR catalog of amazing podcasts to help keep your creative juices flowing!