If you’re planning a girls trip anytime soon, let us save you the group chat debate: it needs to be New York City. The Big Apple, The City That Never Sleeps, The Center of the Universe—whatever nickname you want to give it, it’s one of the most iconic destinations in the world for a reason. Yes, the shopping is unmatched. Yes, the food scene is basically a personality trait. And yes, the nightlight really can make you feel like you’ve been dropped into a scene of Gossip Girl.
Take it from “New Year, New York, and Miss Kaaaye’s First Snow” from DaBaddest Radio, NYC is a beautiful blend of chaos and charisma. But honestly? The best part of a girls’ trip to NYC isn’t just what you do—it’s who you’re doing it with. And who better to experience the world of New York with than a group of besties?
So, if you’re ready to plan the ultimate girls’ getaway, you’re in this right place. This guide walks you through exactly how to make your trip to NYC one of the books. We’ll tel you where to go, what to do, and how to do it.
The Ultimate Guide To An Epic Girls Trip to NYC
Speaking of besties, what kind of friends would we be here at Dear Media if we left you hanging? There’s A LOT to consider when planning a trip to the Big Apple—how can you possibly narrow it down? From the different sections of the city to all the iconic must-see attractions, feeling like you have to fit it all in can become a little… overwhelming.
But don’t panic just yet. Save this post, screenshot our tips, bookmark it in your phone—whatever you have to do to keep up with it, do that. We’re walking you through the hotels to stay at, the things you can do, restaurants to check out, and places you can’t leave the city without seeing. Let’s dive in!
Girls’ Trip Activities: What To Do In NYC With Friends
Go sightseeing.
If this is your first trip to New York City, you might be itching to see some of its world-famous landmarks. We wouldn’t recommend spending the entire day trying to hit every iconic spot in the city. But if you find yourself near one, feel free to embrace the touristy experience! Walk the Brooklyn Bridge, make your way to the top of the Empire State Building or Rockefeller Center (Top of the Rock), see Times Square up close and personal, or take a moment to reflect at the 9/11 Memorial.
Sit down for brunch.
Brunch is a New York City tradition, and we highly recommend indulging. For a memorable meal and a fantastic start to your day, check out one of these top-rated brunch spots:
Shop ‘til you drop.
Shopping in NYC is truly a one-of-a-kind experience. From high-end boutiques to vintage thrift stores, there’s something for everyone. And as the duo from The Toast talks about in THIS episode, there’s NOTHING better than the thrill of finding a vintage goodie. Big spenders will want to head to the Upper East Side, where Fifth and Madison Avenues are lined with luxury stores like Cartier, Chanel, Coach, Dolce & Gabbana Gucci, and Prada, as well as Bloomingdales, Bergdorf Goodman, and Saks Fifth Avenue (hence the name).
SoHo, on the other hand, is the premiere shopping destination. There are dozens of shopping opportunities from Prince Street to Broadway, where you’ll come across luxury brands, fast fashion favorites, and everything in between.
Walk The High Line and Explore Chelsea Market.
If you have some downtime before lunch or dinner, and you’re anywhere near the west side, make time for a walk on The High Line. This railway-turned-park is unlike any city park you’ve ever seen. For the perfect way to kill a few hours, start with some shopping at Hudson Yards, then walk The High Line to Chelsea Market. Chelsea Market is like your favorite farmer’s market on steroids.
Stroll through Central Park.
The hustle and bustle of NYC can be overwhelming, so what better way to take a breather than taking a stroll through Central Park. This iconic 843-acre park is even larger than you might imagine, featuring both familiar sights and hidden gems throughout. Promenade through the center of the park and snap pictures on Bow Bridge, climb atop Umpire Rock on the west side, gaze upon the Obelisk on the east side, or meander through the breathtaking North Woods, the park’s largest woodland.
See a Broadway show.
Whether you’re on a girls’ trip, couples’ vacation, or traveling solo (more deets on that in this episode of Girls Gotta Eat), a trip to New York City isn’t complete without seeing a Broadway show at Broadway Theatre. Whether you’re hoping to see Wicked, The Lion King, Hamilton, or Moulin Rouge, make sure to grab your tickets ahead of time! And if you’ve never been to Broadway, prepare for the more exciting experience of your life. Just listen to the throwback episode “The Bad Broadway” from The Bad Broadcast for a lowdown on the etiquette.
Check out the museums.
New York City is home to world-renowned museums like The Met and the Guggenheim Museum, as well as countless others worth touring. The Museum of Illusions is packed with Instagram-worthy exhibits, the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA) is a contemporary art lover’s dream, and The Museum of Sex is perfect for celebrating womanhood with your girls. Madame Tussauds is pretty neat too. Head there and snap selfies with all of your favorite celebrities!
Experience NYC nightlife.
When it comes to NYC nightlife, your options are endless. From cocktails and appetizers on one of the many rooftop bars in the city to dancing the night away at a lively dance club, there is a venue for every vibe!
In NoMad, there’s 230 Fifth, the largest year-round indoor and outdoor bar and event space in NYC. If you’re into live music, check out Cafe Wha! And for an all-out rave, head to Avant Gardner and dance your ass off to killer mixes courtesy of some of the most famous DJs. No matter where you go, channel your inner Carrie Bradshaw and live out your Sex and the City dreams.
Speaking of Sex and the City, we can’t NOT mention “Kyle Maclachlan Said No to ‘And Just like That‘” from Not Skinny But Not Fat. It’s a juiiiccyyyy episode you don’t wanna miss!
Hotel Recommendations: Where To Stay In NYC With Girl Friends
The Carlyle, A Rosewood Hotel
Now’s your chance to live like the rich and famous, even if only for a few nights. The Carlyle in Upper Manhattan is an iconic, opulent 5-star hotel that has catered to big names like Elizabeth Taylor, Princess Diana, Tom Cruise, Madonna, Calvin Klein, and Lady Gaga. From the minute you arrive, you’ll understand why this luxury hotel in Manhattan’s Upper East Side is consistently recognized as one of the best in the city, and perhaps even the country.
The Plaza
Perfectly situated on Fifth Avenue, The Plaza is another iconic 5-star hotel. Its celebrated for its elegance, luxurious accommodations, and impeccable service. Nestled in Upper Manhattan, this hotel may look familiar, especially if you’ve seen The Great Gatsby or American Hustle. It’s no surprise, then, that staying at The Plaza will make you feel like an A-list celebrity, even if you opt not to indulge in a treatment at the Guerlain Spa.
Lotte New York Palace, a.k.a The Palace
Lotte New York Palace, more commonly referred to as The Palace, was the very first luxury hotel in Manhattan, yet it remains a top choice among guests hoping for true luxury and comfort during their stay in the Big Apple. You can even hear Scheana Shay rave all about it in “Catching A-Listers Eye & Exposing a Mormon Lie” in Scheananigans. Gossip Girl fans will recognize The Palace as Serena Van Der Woodsen’s temporary home. And if it’s good enough for Serena, it’s beyond perfect for us!
NoMo SoHo
For something a little more affordable, consider staying at NoMo SoHo. Located in lower Manhattan, NoMo SoHo is a 4-star luxury boutique hotel that perfectly represents what SoHo is all about; both nostalgic and modern. Naturally, it’s been recognized as one of the more Instagrammable hotels in NYC, mostly because of the lush greenery archway that greets you as you enter the lobby.
Untitled at 3 Freeman Alley
Last, but certainly not least, is our pick for the most ‘aesthetic’ hotel. Located on the lower East Side, Untitled at 3 Freeman Alley is urban, chic, and art-inspired. The cobblestone-paved alley surrounded by towering walls covered with graffiti just barely clue you in to the vibe that defines this modern New York City hotel.
Girly Things to Do in NYC
Go Shopping in SoHo
The ULTIMATE girly NYC experience is hands-down strolling SoHo and shopping ’til you drop. You can stroll through luxury stores like Chanel, head over to independent boutiques like Aimé Leon Dore, and finish off at unique gems like The RealReal. (Because who doesn’t love high-priced fashion on a budget?!) If you’re interested in major chains and big-name brands, head over to Broadway. And if boutiques and architecture is more your style, you’ll wanna be on Mercer Street, Wooster Street, and Green Street.
And while you’re here, why wouldn’t you listen to the best podcasts about beauty and fashion? It’s a great way to find your person style, break through trendy fads, and learn how to find unique, one-of-a-kind pieces.
Book a Fancy Afternoon Tea
Girly things to do and booking a fancy afternoon tea just belong in the same sentence. Think: tiered desserts, tiny sandwiches, and the kind of elegant energy that calls for a chic matching set. And, of course, girl chats like “sex, drugs, and rock n’roll” from Gals on the Go. Ugh, we’re jealous just talking about it.
If you’re looking for places to go, The Grand Salon at Baccarat Hotel is the ULTIMATE luxurious experience. The tea is named after historical figures and every serving comes in signature Baccarat crystal.
Plan a Spa Day
You never need an excuse to treat yourself to a spa day—and NYCs the perfect place to do it. The luxury, high-end spa options are truly endless, and it’s the perfect reset in between a busy itinerary. Plus, facials and massages are good for your health! Sooo, technically, it’s not just a form of self-care—it’s exactly what the doctor ordered.
If you want an inside scoop to the best place to visit? Listen to “From Nightlife to Nail Care: Chillhouse’s Cyndi Ramirez’ Shares Her Glow-Up” from Everything Is The Best.
Visit Trendy Cafés and Coffee Shops
When you imagine a picture-perfect café with Instagram-worthy pictures and a background to match, your mind probably wanders to NYC. Home to iconic matcha moments and cozy pastries, hopping between coffee shops is an activity on its own. And honestly, it’s so easy to squeeze in between other activities.
Plan a Chic Rooftop Dinner
NYC is a dream for foodies—especially foodies who love dinner and show. (AKA a good view.) SO many restaurants feature rooftop reservations with skyline views, making it a must-do to include on your itinerary. The atmosphere is elevated and unique, it’s not nearly as noisy as you’d assume, and it’s a much more intimate way to enjoy the company of your best gal pals.
How to Plan a Trip to NYC
Pick the Best Time of Year to Visit
When you visit New York matters because the seasons change the vibe entirely. Winter calls for cold, snowy, and festive days spent bundled in chic trench coats and those block-heeled booties that have been begging to get out of your closet. You can stroll the street, pick up hot chocolate from a vendor, and run into chic shops to escape the snow. Listen to “Holiday Sleighride: Christmas Lights + Bodegas” from Ride for more on NYC during winter.
Spring offers a mix of temperatures, cherry blossoms on every block, and lots of rain. But the pink budding blossoms behind your IG photoshoots? To die for. Plus, this is when the city starts to come alive again, and it truly is a sight to see. Summer is energetic with lots of humidity. You’ll find outdoor dining reserved 24/7, rooftop bars bustling with energy, and events all throughout the city. So long as you have a cute outfit and maybe a mini fan? You’ll be fine.
And finally, you have autumn. Most people consider this the best time to visit NYC because the weathers nice, the falling leaves are gorg, and there are tons of cozy events to participate in throughout the season. So, what kind of atmosphere are you craving?
Choose Your Hotel Early
Hotels and AirBNBs go fast in NYC thanks to the constant influx of travel. That said, you’re better off booking your place as early as you can. Better safe than sorry! This way, you essentially have “first pick,” and you can find somewhere that’s equal parts budget-friendly and luxurious. Pro tip: staying in Manhattan (or near major subway hubs) makes getting around easier. And when you’re in a walkable city like NYC, this makes all the difference.
If you need a starting point, def tune into “Owning Manhattan (and Surviving It) with Jade Shenker” from Come Together. It’s like skipping the line for first-time visitors.
Build a Flexible Itinerary
Before you actually get to NYC, it’s so easy to write down everything you wanna do. Sight-see for incredible views, shop until your arms are weak, visit so many Michelin star restaurants you’ll never eat fast food again. And yes, it’s definitely a good idea to plan out what you wanna do. Howeverrrr, don’t keep it rigid. This will only stress you out.
Having a general idea of top spots you wanna visit allows you to fill the gaps in with things you find along the way. Because trust us, you really don’t realize how broad the city is until you’re in it. You’ll be at a coffee shop one second, and hitting the shops around the block the next.
Create a Shared Notes App
Sharing a note is such a a girls-trip hack. Keep restaurant lists, spa getaway ideas, must-see spots, and addresses all in one place. This way, you won’t have to sporadically text back and forth, lose your lists, and have to rack your brain to remember where you wanted to go. This also helps you collectively add to the itinerary as you go!
Budget for “Little Sweet Treats”
Sweet treats are the epitome of girls trip. And in NYC? Those add up fast. Coffee runs, late-night brownie orders, Ubers, shopping trips, stopping by vendors, “I have to have these shoes” moments. Build in room for small moments without the stress—and don’t feel bad about splurging a little. NYC is meant for moments like this; they’re half the fun!
Must-See NYC Attractions
The Empire State Building
First things first, you HAVE to visit the Empire State Building. This iconic location features two different observation decks with 360-degree views of the entire city. One deck is on the 86th floor, and it’s an open-air opportunity to see, hear, and smell everything NYC has to offer.
If you want something a little less out-and-about, head to the panoramic observatory on the 102nd floor. Here you can find floor-to-ceiling windows with views you’ll never find anywhere else. Listen to “Brand Safe Tana Mongeau” for a quick, funny story about her experience at the Empire State Building.
Times Square
Look… Times Square isn’t for the weak—but it is a place everyone should visit at least once. Picture: dazzling lights on every inch of the block, massive Broadway theaters, and street performers (sometime in costume, sometimes not). Is it hectic? Absolutely—there are people everywhere. But is it a quintessential NYC experience that you’ll be sad you missed out on? Also absolutely.
The Statue of Liberty
Another must-visit location when you’re in New York is definitely the State of Liberty. Historically, it’s a signifier of American independence—and seeing it up close and in person makes you appreciate that much more. Plus, visiting it via boat and admiring her in all her glory against the NYC skyline? Truly breaking. There are so many guided tours, self-guided tours, and fun facts you get to learn along the way, too. It’s a 10/10 experience.
The High Line
The High Line is a 1.45-mile-long park built ON a freight rail line. As if that wasn’t intriguing enough, the entire walk offers unique scenic views above the West Side of Manhattan—often coined as the “Park in the Sky.” With tranquil, abundant greenery, world-class contemporary art installations, and a historical atmosphere within every step, it’s a completely one-of-a-kind experience you’ll be glad you treated yourself to.
The Rockefeller Center
When you think of the Rockefeller Center, you probably think of the iconic ice skating rink and the giant Christmas tree. However, don’t think you can’t enjoy it outside of wintertime! This is a great place to visit year-round. The views are amazing (take the Skylift and thank us later), attending an SNL taping is an INCREDIBLE experience, and the complex itself is a historical landmark. Plus, there’s plenty of restaurants and shops throughout the block, allowing you to wine and dine your besties as you explore all the city has to offer.
NYC is the ultimate destination for a memorable getaway with your best friends.
Planning your girls trip to NYC is seriously an experience you’ll never regret. From shopping and cafés to luxury hotels and world-renowned spas, it just screams “experience me with your besties.” And AS the city that never sleeps, you’ll truly never run out of things to do. Blending history with high-class experiences and unparalleled views, NYC is definitely a place you won’t wanna miss out on.
We truly believe that taking a trip together is a great way to strengthen friendships. But if you’re not quite there yet, no worries! Check out our post on how to make female friends for some practical tips on finding your new bestie. And if you find yourself asking “why are female friendships important?” Well, we have a post on that too! Oh, and be sure to listen to the Transform episode on How to Build Your Best Friendships.
