Small Changes That Actually Make Your Life Feel Expensive

Life elevation doesn’t always require sweeping changes. Sometimes, the most impactful upgrades come from micro-adjustments that make life feel more put together, a little more chic, and a whole lot more enjoyable.

Inspired by a recent episode of That’s The Point podcast with hosts Kristen and John, here’s a guide to the little habits, routines, and mindset shifts that can transform your everyday experience.

Do The Thing You’ve Been Contemplating Forever

We all have that one thing we overthink into oblivion. Whether it’s cutting bangs (as Kristen so epically documented), trying a bold lip, or finally committing to a new routine, sometimes the best way to elevate your life is to just go for it.

“I was in the depths of my winter uglies,” Kristen confessed on the pod, recalling her decision to finally get bangs. “I texted my sister like, ‘I’m just gonna do the bangs,’ and she was like, ‘Just do the freaking bangs. No one cares.’”

The lesson? Stop debating about your life elevation. If something’s been on your radar and it makes you feel good, just do it. Worst case? You move on. Best case? You look and feel amazing.

Prioritize Small Luxuries That Feel Big

You don’t need a five-star lifestyle to enjoy a five-star moment. Little indulgences—a great candle, a plush robe, high-quality bed sheets—can elevate your daily experience.

Consider what everyday rituals could feel more special with a small upgrade. Maybe it’s swapping your basic coffee mug for a gorgeous ceramic one or investing in a French press to make mornings feel more European.

Romanticize the Mundane

A life well-lived is about finding joy in the routine. John summed it up perfectly when talking about his love for soup-making: “I never follow a recipe because you can’t mess up soup. It’s like a warm hug.”

Whatever your thing is—making tea, putting on lip liner, listening to jazz while cooking—find ways to make everyday moments feel intentional. Life is infinitely better when you make even the small stuff feel special.

Invest in Quality Basics That Last

In a world of fast fashion and disposable everything, choosing quality over quantity makes a real difference.

“I just got a set from Left on Friday,” Kristen shared, referring to her new go-to for high-quality workout wear. “They are compressing you in all the right places, but it’s not too tight and cutting off your circulation.”

A well-made coat, go-to pair of jeans, or perfect-fitting leggings can make your wardrobe feel effortless while standing the test of time.

Create a Cozy, Clutter-Free Space

Nothing feels more luxurious than a tidy and intentional home for a simple life elevation hack. Kristen mentioned how making her bed “the second I get out of it” completely transforms her day. It takes two minutes and instantly shifts your space from chaotic to calm.

Consider your lighting too—harsh overhead lights can feel sterile, but warm table lamps instantly create a cozy atmosphere.

Master One Simple, Delicious Recipe

You don’t need to be Ina Garten, but having one go-to dish in your back pocket makes you feel effortlessly put together.

John, the self-proclaimed “Soup King,” shared his foolproof soup formula: “Rosemary, basil pesto, lemon zest, and heavy cream—that’s going to ensure the most delectable, palate-pleasing experience.”

A signature dish (a killer pasta, a go-to salad, or a cozy soup) means you’re always ready to whip up something special. Bonus points if it pairs well with a good bottle of wine.

Upgrade Your Morning Routine (Just a Little)

Small morning adjustments can change your entire day.

For Kristen and John, an espresso machine was the investment that made mornings feel luxurious. “If you love coffee, throw your Keurig in the trash,” Kristen joked. “A real espresso machine will change your life.”

For others, it might be a few minutes of stretching, a morning playlist, or a face mask. The key? Start your day with something that makes you feel good.

Let Go of Social Anxiety & Overthinking

One of Kristen’s most powerful insights is the “Let Them” theory.

“If people are going to think something about you, just let them,” she shared. “We get so wound up worrying about how we’re perceived, but at the end of the day? Let them.”

We previously talked about this concept with Mel Robbins, who also swears by the power of letting go. When you release the pressure of others’ perception, you become lighter, freer, and infinitely more confident.

Incorporate Movement That Feels Good

Exercise shouldn’t feel like punishment. Find movement that energizes you, whether it’s a hot girl walk, pilates, weightlifting, or dancing. Kristen also notes that having a gym buddy or accountability partner can make a huge difference: “Your workouts are going to happen and be better if you have someone keeping you on track.”

Make Hydration Effortless

An aesthetically pleasing, easy-to-use water bottle can be life-changing if you struggle to drink enough water. John swears by his Owala bottle, saying, “It actually makes me want to drink water more.”

Find what works for you—a cute tumbler, herbal teas, or infusing water with fruit for this life elevation hack. Small hydration hacks = big energy boosts.

Embrace Rituals That Ground You

A life that feels elevated feels intentional. For Kristen, that means a nightly magnesium drink and an evening tidy-up routine.

For you, it might be journaling, diffusing lavender before bed, or a skincare routine that gets you glowing. Whatever it is, find rituals that bring you peace and stick with them.