We Met At Acme - Dear Media - New Way to Podcast

We Met At Acme

with Lindsey Metselaar

We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. This podcast touches on subjects that we don't talk about, but we all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.


Episodes

  • How To Become Confident, Stay Cool In A Fight, And Be Nice To Yourself ft. Michell ClarkIn this episode, I virtually sit down with affirmation writer Michell Clark. We discuss how to become confident, the best affirmations we can say to ourselves, ways to navigate fights in relationships, dealing with a depressed friend, weaponizing...
  • Being A Work Wife, Not Wanting Kids, And How To Ask Your Partner For Help ft. Claire and EricaIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Claire and Erica from A Thing Or Two Podcast. We discuss relationship dynamics when you work together, being sure you don’t want kids, how fulfillment looks to everyone, living with friends, wanting to be...
  • Dating Someone Twice Your Age, Co-Dependence In Quarantine, And Attracting The Right Partner ft. Arielle LorreIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Arielle Lorre from The Blonde Files. We discuss age differences in relationships, moving in with a partner after 5 months, co- dependence during quarantine, and working on yourself to attract the...
  • Owning Your Body, High-school Sweethearts, And Testing Your Relationship ft. Cameron RogersIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Cameron Rogers aka Freckled Foodie. We discuss the instagram obsession to not have fat rolls, testing your relationship when it’s longterm, and her marriage with her high school sweetheart. This episode...
  • How To Trick Men Into Thinking It’s Their Idea ft. Sarah Fraser And Andrea LopezIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Sarah Fraser and Andrea Lopez, co-hosts of Hey Frase Podcast. We discuss celebrity gossip, dick size, leo and aquarius, making guys think things are their idea, getting married young, the 3 week 3 month 3...
  • What A Matchmaker Looks For When Matching Two People ft. Emily Holmes of LastFirstIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Emily Holmes, the founder of LastFirst matchmaking. We discuss what makes a match compatible, breaking out of your type, time limits for a first date, do opposites really attract, talking about exes on dates,...
  • The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets For Capturing the Heart Of Mr. Right ft. The Author herselfIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Sherrie Schneider, the co-author of the famous “The Rules” book, published in 1995. We discuss what the rules are, and why it is so important to follow them. Sherrie explains how important it is for a...
  • What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie RobinsonIn this episode, I virtually sit down with published author and blogger Baylie Robinson. Baylie and I discuss the “no-contact rule,” the difference between dating a Black woman and a White woman, interracial relationships, what we need in our...
  • An Easy Way For Women To Orgasm And How Important Your Friend Group Is ft. Adam LyonsThis episode starts with a solo with my friend Brihanna where we have an open conversation about what it’s like to be a Black woman in America. The episode continues with Adam Lyons, a dating coach who also happens to be in a polyamorous...
  • Why Couples Get Divorced And The Unsexy Conversations You Should Have To Avoid It ft. Laura WasserIn this episode, I virtually sit down with divorce attorney Laura Wasser. We discuss why couples get divorced, crucial conversations you need to have with a partner, if a pre-nup is necessary, what to look out for when dating, how much a divorce...
  • Going Through A Break Up During Quarantine, Virtual Dating Tips, And How We Were As Teenagers ft. Kay BrownIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Kay Brown (of @Betches). We dis- cuss her break up during quarantine, tips for virtual dating, why women think the men we date are the one, what we were like as teens, our insecurities, and so much more. This...
  • How To Get Them To Define Things, Dressing For Dates, And The Power Of Social Media ft. Danielle BernsteinIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Danielle Bernstein, the founder of WeWoreWhat. We talk about her new book, feeling confident in your body, quarantining with a boyfriend, what to wear on a first date, haters, what is off-limits to share...
  • There Is No Such Thing As Sexual Incompatibility ft. Ian FergusonIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Ian Ferguson, an intimacy coach and teacher of the Erotic Blueprint BreakthroughTM platform, designed to radically transform how we talk about and experience sex. We discuss the 5 different types of erotic...
  • Ending Friendships, Starting New Relationships In Quarantine, and Vanderpump Rules Gossip ft. Kristen DouteIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Kristen Doute from Vanderpump Rules. We discuss her friendship with Stassi and Katie, her book, what she would tell her 20 something self, how therapy has helped her, her new quarantine buddy, how she is...
  • Men Want Sex, Women Want Security ft. Rob KowalskiIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Rob Kowalski. Rob is a best-sell- ing author and speaker who is best known for his views on waiting to have sex before marriage. We discussed why it’s good to wait, how men and women view sex differently,...
  • First Relationships, Sticking Around When A Guy Doesn't Define Things, And Why Living Together Is Hard ft. My Friend Leo SloanIn this episode, I virtually sit down with my friend and first *middle school* boyfriend Leo Sloan. Leo is the founder of the amazing New Orleans restaurant(s) Good Bird. We discuss new-ish relationships in the time of corona, first relationships,...
  • Pursuing A Man Successfully, Abusive Relationship Patterns, And Fighting In Quarantine ft. Jeannie and ClemIn this episode, I virtually sit down with Jeannie Mai and her boyfriend Clem. We discuss what determines an abusive relationship, finding love after going through abuse, transitioning from friends to lovers, girls pursuing guys, being parents to a...
  • My Dating Rules, Tips For Quarantining With A Partner, And Meeting The Parents On ZoomIn this full solo episode, I discuss my dating rules, tips for quarantining with your partner, zoom matchmaking and how it is going so far, meeting my boyfriend’s par- ents over FaceTime, sexting/nudes, maintenance during corona, one night stands,...
  • Getting Sober, Dating Sober, And A Successful Set Up ft. Sarah LevyIn this episode I sit down with my friend and writer Sarah Levy. Sarah and I discuss why she got sober, what dating is like sober, how I set her and her boyfriend up, and the benefits of sobriety. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my new...
  • Why You Should Date A Sign You Aren’t Compatible With ft. Colin BedellIn this episode I sit down with astrologer Colin Bedell. We discuss everything from Taylor Swift lyrics, celebrities zodiac signs, Capricorn moons, people who ask you to call you for a sec, dating someone with an incompatible chart, if astrology has a...
  • They’re Not Your Ex If They Haven’t Met Your Family, Dating Two People At Once, And Sharing Traumas ft. Dan PerlmanIn this episode I sit down with comedian Dan Perlman. We discuss every- thing from how to refer to people you’ve dated, loving the idea of someone vs. them, caring for a partner when they’re sick, sharing traumas too soon, taking risks in...
  • A Live Psychic Reading, Bisexual Experiences, and Standards vs. Expectations ft. Mickey GrossmanIn this episode I sit down with psychic and energy reader Mickey Grossman. Mickey tells me all about my past lives, the energy he feels around me, and what he perceives for my future. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss period sex and...
  • Why Guys Always Come Back, How To Lower Your Expectations, And After Date Follow Up ft. Chanel OmariIn this episode I sit down with comedian and podcast host Chanel Omari from Bravo’s Princesses of Long Island. We discuss everything from bad breath, guys not getting over girls, after date follow up etiquette, amazing dates that don’t turn into...
  • Why Breaks Are A Red Flag, What Rebounding Entails, And Comparing New People To Exes ft. Elizabeth EndresIn this episode I sit down with Elizabeth Endres from Sweats And The City. We discuss her break up, whether or not a heads up is necessary if you’re going to publicly talk about an ex, why breaks are possibly a red flag, guys who have fomo,...
  • Dating Without Dating Apps, Closure Conversations, And Why Exclusivity Is BullshitIn this solo episode, I talk about my first few dates being single, why I’m not on dating apps and how that has been so far, my closure conversation with my ex, why exclusivity is bullshit, betraying yourself for a relationship to work, my...
  • But Like Maybe Don’t… Do Any Of These Things ft. Arianna MargulisIn this episode, I sit down with my friend and talented cartoon artist Arianna Margulis of But Like Maybe. We talk about what not to do when you’re dating in your early 20s, her favorite passage from her new book, our own personal mistakes, a bad...
  • How Much Men Care About Looks, Putting Yourself Out There, And The Difference Between A First And Second Date ft. Harrison And Brandon from The UpDating ShowIn this episode, I sit down with the creators of UpDating Brandon Berman and Harrison Forman. We discuss everything from how they match couples for blind dating, if people who like to talk need other people who like to talk, how much people care about...
  • My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon AslayIn this episode, I sit down with author and dating coach Jonathon Aslay. We discuss everything from why you can never assume anything in dating, leading with love, why it’s okay to tell people you if you like them, guys in their 20s vs guys in their...
  • Getting Financially Naked: When You Should Ask A Partner What They Make And Why Prenups Are Crucial ft. Shannon McLayIn this episode, I sit down with Shannon from The Financial Gym. We discuss everything from when you can ask a partner about money, why prenups are necessary, getting “financially naked,” who should pay for what based on their salary, and our past...
  • What Isn’t Attractive To Guys, Wishing Your Ex A HBD, and Dating Someone With AddictionIn this first solo episode of 2020, I answer your questions that came in via email and Instagram DM. I discuss what I keep hearing from single guys, dating anniversaries, wishing your ex a happy birthday, telling someone you meet if you’ve slept...
  • Live Podcast at Bowery Ballroom (ft. Nick Viall, Tori Piskin, Alyssa Coscarelli, and Justin McLeod)In this live podcast episode, we discuss everything from sex on the first date, to long distance relationships, why hinge took away the height feature, embarrassing trends we participated in, and more!  Produced by
  • Why Men Sleep With You On The First Date Because They’re Insecure, Being A Player In The Age Of Feminism, And Getting Divorced By Age 26.On this week’s episode, I talk to author Josh Raab about avoiding red flags, his divorce, signs you’re in a toxic relationship, why Josh thinks it’s a bad idea to sleep together early on, open relationships, and more. This episode starts off...
  • Breaking Off Engagements, Body Image, And Not Bringing Out The Best In Each Other ft. Anne MahlumOn this week’s episode, I talk to CEO Anne Mahlum about meeting her partner in the DM, breaking off her engagement, body image issues, if abs are really made in the kitchen, taking responsibility in your relationships, having a high work and sex...
  • Living With A Partner For The First Time, Stigmas About Working For Your Parents, And Not Getting Married Until You’re Financially Set ft. The Zabar TwinsOn this week’s episode, I talk to twins Oliver and Sasha Zabar about dating with no pressure to get married, stigma’s about working for your parents, what it’s like being twins, how living with a partner can actually be easier, and more! This...
  • Settling vs. Compromising, Emotionally Abusive Relationships, And My Parents Love StoryOn this week’s solo episode, I answer your submitted questions about how my parents met, settling vs. compromising, emotionally abusive relationships and parents, different sex drives, tips to get to a second date, my dating rules, if you ever...
  • WTF Is Mercury In Retrograde, Biological Clocks, And Can You Get Out Of The Friendzone? ft. That’s So RetrogradeOn this week’s episode, I sit down with Elizabeth Kott and Stephanie Simbari from That’s So Retrograde! We discuss mercury in retrograde, intense dreams, moving in with a partner, a woman’s “biological clock,” guys who are friends with...
  • What A 26 Year Old Guy Is Looking For, PTSD From Exes, And When You’re Into Someone But The Timing Is Off ft. KiaOn this week’s episode, I sit down with my friend Kia and discuss PTSD from exes, first generation Americans, timing, what 26 year old single guys are looking for, when you like someone but it’s the wrong timing, and more! This episode starts off...
  • Marriage Timelines and Ultimatums, Eating Issues, Demanding Friendships, and Tips To Move On.On this week’s solo episode, I answer your questions and talk about first loves vs. last loves, telling people you don’t like their partner, couples who sleep together every night, marriage timelines and ultimatums, eating issues, demanding...
  • On/Off Relationships, Bullying, Nosejobs, And How Much To Share On Social Media with Michaela PodolskyOn this week’s episode, I sit down with Michaela Podo and we talk about everything from her on and off relationship with her now husband, her 2 nosejobs, bullying when she was younger, getting your family on board when you get back together, rumors...
  • Mental Health, The Correct Way To Slide Into Someone’s DMs, And Why You Should Wait To Have Sex with Atlanta De Cadenet TaylorOn this week’s episode, I sit down with Atlanta De Cadenet Taylor and we discuss everything from mental health, not drinking, her recent engagement, if once a cheater is always a cheater, and more. This episode starts with a solo part where I talk...
  • Adam4Adam, Taking On Someone Else’s Debt, And If Opposites Actually Attract with MarkoOn this week’s episode, I sit down with Marko from Relationshit Podcast. We discuss meeting online before dating apps, freedom in a relationship, assumptions of gay couples, changing your mind on kids, and as usual, we bang out some poll...
  • Serial Monogamy, Superstitions In Dating, And Pre-Sex Sleepovers With Lucas O’NeilOn this week’s episode, I sit down comedian Lucas O’Neil and we discuss his darkest comedy, dating an older woman, why pre-sex sleepover's are too intimate, when you can request each other on Instagram, and more. This episode starts with a solo...
  • Finding Love Again And Staying Healthy On Dates with Tanya ZuckerbrotOn this week’s episode, I chat with Tanya Zuckerbrot about dating in your 20s, attitudes towards dating (the power of the pass), needing someone to complete you vs. finding your best friend, how much you should compromise in a...
  • Wedding, Venmo, and Dating Etiquette with MykaAren’t you curious how much you need to spend on a wedding? And who should spend what when you go to a wedding with your partner? On this week’s episode, I chat with etiquette expert Myka Meier about everything from how to hold a bag, to how...
  • NYC Date Nite + My Theory About GuysThis episode starts with how to be confident in the bedroom, rules of platonic friendships, and my theory of guys. Then, Alexis (@nycdatenite) and I discuss leaving your job to start an Instagram, being traditional in dating, the hottest way a guy can...
  • Farmer Nick + the Dos and Don't of dating app profilesIn this episode, I start by discussing the do's and don'ts of dating app profiles, toxic friendships, having the upper hand in dating, things I wish I knew at 22, and more! Then, I chat with Farmer Nick about going from IBM to farming, his interfaith...
  • Julie Lauren from Hashtag No FilterWelcome to Season 2! All episodes will start with a solo based on what our listeners have requested we talk about. In the solo intro, I discuss being too available, my facetune fail, Facebook's dating service, the 3 week 3 month 3 year rule, and more....
  • Our 100th Episode! Featuring a solo podcast + Katie and Brian!Our 100th episode (!!!!) begins with a solo where I talk about blacking out in the past, being too available, and share some horror stories. Then we get the privilege of the FIRST DEBUT CONVO with @honestlykate and honestly bae aka Katie and...
  • Jule the Bee plus a preview of our live show in LAIn this episode I talk to Jule the Bee about getting fired, knowing it was time for a divorce, friends with benefits, serial monogamists, the key to a happy marriage, meeting people online, and so much more! We also include a clip from our LA show...
  • Jule the Bee plus a preview of our live show in LAIn this episode I talk to Jule the Bee about getting fired, knowing it was time for a divorce, friends with benefits, serial monogamists, the key to a happy marriage, meeting people online, and so much more! We also include a clip from our LA show...
  • 36 Questions That Lead To Love + Yummertime!This episode starts with a solo episode where I talk about having feelings for someone else while in a relationship, friends who make bad decisions, extroverts dating introverts, and I answer the 36 questions that lead to love! Then we have the...
  • The Ladies from Uncensored ThoughtsIn this episode, I chat with Amber and Sophia about breaking off a long term relationship, meeting people at the gym, sending thank you texts THAT NIGHT instead of the next day, hyping up dates, how I need to be more empathetic, and more! Head to to...
  • Lindsey's 2nd Solo Podcast and A Clip From Our Bowery Ballroom ShowOn this new solo episode, I talk about break ups, quitting weed and drinking, STDs, girls going for guys first, getting past your partners most serious ex, signs of narcissism, advice for a first love, being single and happy, how to act when you run...
  • Kimmy and Liza from 51 First DatesThis episode starts out with a little solo conversation since you guys were into that last time. Then, Kimmy and Liza and I discuss going to an all girls school, parents who don't care about parties in their homes, going on 51 dates, when to sleep...
  • Lindsey's Solo Episode!In this episode, I talk to you guys about friends with benefits, sex drive, what I've learned about myself through dating, relationship tips, getting through arguments, my relationship with myself, being single in late 20s early 30s, and so much more!
  • Writer Josh Roberts (he's got a British accent!)In this week's episode with Josh Roberts, we discuss British lingo, panic attacks, therapy in the UK, cognitive behavioral therapy vs psychotherapy, men with eating disorders, how many things in your mind you should share with your partner, if the...
  • Human Design Guide Erin Claire JonesErin and I discuss human design, how her and her partner went from friends to in a serious relationship, when Erin was in an open relationship, intuition, and more. Erin also gives me a little taste of my human design blueprint. 
  • Pride Weekend! featuring Carly and ShelbyHappy Pride! This week’s episode features Carly and Shelby. In this episode, we discuss how they met, what it’s like for exes when you come out, kips bay, parents making you sleep in separate rooms, experimenting in school, and so much more!
  • Live Panel in ChicagoIn this live podcast, there is something for everyone. Our guests bring all perspectives to the table. We’ve got Ceta Walters who is married with kids, Ariel Ginsburg who is in a relationship, and two single guys Adam Sokolowitz and Josh Iachelli. Follow along as we dive into just about every topic from sex on a first take, to defining the relationship, therapy of course, and much more! Visit wemetatacme.com/tour for tickets to live events! Receive 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/ACME
  • Rori Sasson, author of The Art Of The Date and founder of Platinum PoireIn this episode, Rori and I discuss men's unrealistic expectations, having a 21 year age difference with your partner, having a male gyno, why you need more in common than less, spending money to meet someone, why you shouldn't have sex on a first...
  • Missy Modell, host of The Nest and founder of YES MAMIn this episode, Missy and I talk about eating healthy, not wanting to freeze eggs, becoming a different person every year of your 20s and 30s, our dating app songs and profiles, splitting the bill, times where we weren't picky, and so much...
  • Lindsey's Friend Jonah FeingoldIn this episode, Jonah and I discuss our high school reunions, wanting to skip first dates and go on second ones, being a fuckboy, what a fuckboy actually is, keeping someone on their toes, when breaks can be beneficial, and so much more!   ...
  • Paige DeSorbo from Summer HouseIn this episode with Paige from Summer House, we talk about turning friendship into a relationship, dating an older guy, taking someone back who cheated on you, men who care about religion, the effects of reality TV, and so much more!
  • Producer, Comedian, Director, and Aquarius Mike KeltonIn this episode, Mike and I talk about having a finsta, ghosts, mental health, who proposes in a gay couple, skipping the engagement period, the proposal photo that has a dick in it, the gay mating call look, spray tanning and so much more! 
  • SURPRISE PROPOSAL: WOMAN THAT MET HER BOYFRIEND AT ACME PROPOSESIn this SPECIAL SURPRISE proposal episode, I talk to Meghan Asha and Lev Brie about how they met at Acme! We also discuss running start-ups, how entrepreneurship mentality coincides with relationship mentality, meeting once a week about your...
  • Mark Manson, author of "F*** Yes Or No"In this episode of We Met At Acme, I sit down with one of my favorite writers Mark Manson. Mark has a new book coming out called "Everything Is Fucked." We discuss when Mark was a dating coach, what inspired him to write Fuck Yes Or No, how long you...
  • The Couple That Keeps A Sex JournalIn this episode, I sit down with Levina Li and Caleb Spaulding, founders and creators of "A Sex Journal." We discuss journaling after sex, Evryman, going from friends to dating, working on ourselves, navigating fights in relationships, stepping...
  • Steve Kane, author of "F*** it. Get a Divorce"In this episode, Steve and I talk about how to know if you should get a divorce, if you're unhappy in a moment vs unhappy in general, ages 26 vs 56, how much luck plays into relationships, having the same problems in different partnerships, if...
  • Comedian Ali KolbertIn this episode, Ali and I discuss what "brunch" has become, how she met her current girlfriend IRL, the stigma around moving on really fast, stalking your partner's social media, how important trust is, how you should break up if you have a desire to...
  • Singer/Songwriter Jake MillerIn this episode, Jake and I talk about how he got into music, his big break, aim away messages, opening for Snoop Dogg, his friendship with Colton Underwood, people who go on dating apps to look for friends, when it's appropriate to be on your phone,...
  • Scheana from Vanderpump RulesIn this episode, Scheana and I talk about how Vanderpump Rules began in the first place, the Eddie Cibrian/Brandy drama, her current relationship status, being married to someone with addiction, why she froze her eggs, hooking up with John Mayer, who...
  • Dating and Attraction Coach Connell BarrettIn this episode, and I discuss the no game game, being vulnerable, how men overthink dating, getting out of the friendzone, the difference between pick up artists and sincere guys, roadblocks for men when dating, attracting vs connecting, male...
  • Actress Carly Chaikin from Mr. RobotWe Met At Acme Episode 75 features my friend Carly Chaikin, best known for her role as Darlene in Mr. Robot. Carly also starred in Suburgatory, The Last Song, and many more amazing films. In this episode, Carly and I discuss finding someone when...
  • Marc Weinstein: our favorite character in the Fyre Festival documentaryIn We Met At Acme Episode 74, Marc and I discuss his long distance girlfriend, early I-love-you’s, LA vs NY, birth order, how Marc got involved in Fyre Fest, the evacuation, the aftermath, how social media affects our generation, comparing Instagram...
  • Hannah Berner from Berning In Hell and Summer HouseOn this episode, and I discuss our demons, talking shit, playing tennis, tall guys, dating comedians, why you shouldn't take advice from your single friends, objectifying men, break up advice, insecurities, girls who are funny, fighting well, and so...
  • Jonathan Shokrian from MeUndiesIn this episode, we talk to Jonathan Shokrian aka Shok, the founder and CEO of . We discuss Persian weddings, new relationships, Shok's experience in prison, the flaws of the system, bonds that Shok built with the other inmates, growing up in a...
  • Lindsey’s Amazing TherapistIn this episode, my incredible therapist Cecilia and I talk about her methods, core mindfulness, tolerating pain, reaction management, if everyone should experience therapy, emotional mind, reasonable mind, wise mind, and so much more!
  • Storyteller Caroline CallowayIn this episode with Caroline Calloway, we talk about how she ended up at Cambridge, her quintuple Sagittarius, being labeled as a scammer, how we define influencers, adderall addiction, sexual confidence, learning how to handle Instagram fame, and...
  • Guys Who Finish Quickly, Long Distance Relationships, Scheduling Sex, and Defining Relationships Before Sex ft. Thomas and TuckerIn this episode, I chat with Thomas and Tucker, co-hosts of the . We discuss defining a relationship before sleeping together, talking during sex, being turned off, guys who finish quickly, long distance, communication priorities, scheduling sex, and...
  • Saturn Return, Past Lives, Meeting People You Aren't Meant To Meet, and Self Awareness ft. Aliza KellyIn this episode,  and I talk about our Saturn return (it happens between late 20s and early 30s), hereditary lines, past lives, cardinal/mutable/fixed signs, dating apps, meeting people we “weren’t meant to meet”, sign compatibility,...
  • Female Entrepreneurship, Supporting Your Partner, Showing Up For People, and New York vs. LA ft. Sally Kim of Crushed TonicIn this episode, Sally and I discuss why she created Crushed Tonic, New York people vs LA people, being a female entrepreneur, jealous guys, the importance of supporting your partner, turning networking into a date, showing up for people, and so...
  • Dealbreakers, Dating With A Positive Attitude, Love Languages, and Moving In Together ft. Oliver Kremer of Dos TorosIn this episode, Oliver and I discuss dating apps, how technology influences our conversations, dealbreakers, dating with a positive attitude, acting with intention, intellectual connection, love languages, being adventurous in a relationship, how to...
  • Britni Interviews Me On Why I Created The Podcast And We Discuss What Qualities To Look For In A Partner and Why You Shouldn't Have Sex On A First DateIn this episode, Lindsey Metselaar, host of the podcast, is interviewed by her dear friend, Britni. Lindsey discusses everything from why she created the podcast, what qualities to look for in a partner, therapy, sex on a first date, poll questions...
  • Bridesmaids For Hire, Worst Wedding Experiences, Opening Up To Strangers, and Being Helpful In A Wedding Party ft. Jen GlantzIn this episode, Jen and I discuss what it looks like to be a bridesmaid for hire, bad breakups, dating app romances, her worst hired bridesmaid experience(s), how opening up to strangers can be easier than opening up to friends, how to treat the...
  • Long-term Relationships, Jealousy, What Sex-Ed Didn't Teach Us, Boarding School, Energy, and STDs ft. James KavanaghWe Met At Acme episode 63 features our first Irishman James Kavanagh! On this episode, we discuss gay long-term relationships, jealousy, what we DON’T learn from sex-ed, how to learn about good sex, the boarding school experience, attracting those...
  • Relationship Expectations, Dating Anxiety, Healing, and Intuitive Dating ft. Nikki NovoIn this episode, Nikki and I discuss putting expectations on a relationship, betas, healing, feeling the presence of people who have passed on, psychedelics, dating anxiety, Nikki’s 3 stage program, creating space within yourself, clarity on what...
  • ASMR, Religious Cults, Being Very Single, Two Week Relationships, and Bad Dating App Experiences ft. Musician Kyan PalmerIn this episode, Kyan, 24, and I talk about being veryyyy single, two-week relationships, bad dating app experiences, his desire for his partner to be a teacher, ASMR, religious cults, one of our favorite topics, sex on a first date, and so much more!...
  • Gender Reassignment Surgery, and Cyber Bullying ft. Trans Activist and Model Corey RaeIn this episode, Corey and I discuss being transgender from birth, cyber bullying, dating while trans, getting surgery, dating apps and people’s responses, transgender idols/icons, and so much more!    This episode is...
  • Kissing And Telling, Connecting vs. Just Being Attracted, and Nick's Favorite Bachelor Date ft. Nick ViallIn this episode, Nick and I discuss his best bachelor date, connecting with someone vs just being attracted to them, kissing and telling, dating apps, how to weed out the fame-chasers vs genuinely interested women, sex on the first date, gender roles...
  • Making The First Move, Different Types Of Orgasms, The Gooch, and Proper Anal ft. Sexologist Shan BoodramWe Met At Acme Episode 58 features Shan Boody, the Martha Stewart of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss making the first move, the steps of intimacy, consent and intent, knowing what works for you in the bedroom, different types of orgasms, doing...
  • Exes Coming Out, Paying On Dates, Therapy, Dating A Comedian, and Stalking Exes ft. Sam Morril
  • Zodiac Sign Compatibility, Birth Charts, Nature Vs. Nurture, and The Importance Of The Moon ft. Nadine JaneIn this episode, Nadine and I discuss the purpose of astrological readings, the importance of the moon, sign compatibility , the meaning of Venus in retrograde, the birth chart, the houses, nature vs nurture, birth order, and so much more!
  • Dating When You're A Celeb, The #metoo Movement, And Trust In A Relationship ft. Jerry Ferrara from EntourageWe Met At Acme Episode 55 features actor Jerry Ferrera of Entourage. In this episode, we discuss how Jerry landed his gorgeous wife, pre-Entourage dating vs post-Entourage dating, what it’s like to be super famous, women expecting him to actually be...
  • Fuckboy vs. Nonfuckboy Behavior, Body Hair, Bi-Coastal Relationships, and Healthy Sex Lives ft. Josh KaplanWe Met At Acme Episode 53 features Josh from Buck Mason, a menswear brand out of LA. In this episode, we discuss defining the relationship, indicators of fuckboy and non-fuckboy behavior, body hair, how golf is a way to get away from your partner,...
  • Growing Up In NYC vs. Moving Here, Keeping Nudes, And What To Say On A Dating App ft. Serena KerriganWe Met At Acme Episode 52 features Serena Fucking Kerrigan from Refinery 29. We discuss what it’s like growing up in the city vs moving here after school, ambivalence toward dating apps, how to handle dating app matches, age difference in...
  • Meet Cutes, Converting For A Partner, and Dating Preferences ft. Jonah, Jared, Jake, and MeredithWe Met At Acme Episode 51 is a recording of We Met At UJA, our live panel event with Jonah Feingold, Jared Matthew Weiss, Meredith Davis, and Jake Walker. On this panel, we talk about meet cutes, Judaism, converting for a partner, dating preferences,...
  • Midwives, IUD's, Pregnancy, and Eating Your Placenta ft. JoriWe Met At Acme Episode 50 features Jori, our first midwife. In this episode, Jori and I discuss what midwives do, differences in healthcare around the world, contraception, IUD's, pregnancy and knowing when to get pregnant, eating your placenta, and A...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 49 with Ross Asdourian, author of the book Broken Bananah: Life, Love, and Sex ... Without a Penis.We Met At Acme Episode 49 features Ross Asdourian, author of Broken Bananah. In this episode, we discuss how Ross broke his penis, walking the line between emasculating and contributing your fair share, Instagram models, tabouli-gate, love for your family vs love for your partner; dating app profiles, sex dreams, circumcision, and so much more!
  • Turn-Ons, Lube, Enneagrams, And Attachment Styles ft. Chrissy Ford of Harper's BazaarWe Met At Acme episode 48 features Chrissy Rutherford aka @chrissyford, a digital editor at Harper’s Bazaar. In this episode; we talk turn ons, lube, break ups and moving on from them, dealing with cheating in a new relationship, attachment styles,...
  • Meeting IRL vs. Apps, Men Who Are Too Into Social Media, and Kelly Ripa ft. Emma from Comments By CelebsWe Met At Acme Episode 47 features Emma and Julie from everyone's favorite Instagram account @commentsbycelebs. In this episode, we discuss how the account started, being blessed by Kelly Ripa, open relationships and if they are ever really fair,...
  • Lesbian Dating, The Sexuality Spectrum, and Who Pays On A First Date For Two Women ft. Devyn SloaneWe Met At Acme Episode 46 features my friend Devyn, who is also our first lesbian guest! In this episode, we discuss best friends same-sex crushes, lesbian porn, coming out, the sexuality spectrum, who pays on first dates, the lesbian scene in NYC,...
  • Ghosting, Healing From Break Ups, and Attachment Styles (The Book "Attached") ft. Amy ChanEpisode 45 featuresAmy Chan, founder of Renew Breakup Boot Camp. In this episode, we discuss the renew program, ghosting, break-ups and their different stages,anxious/avoidant attachment styles, and more!
  • Being A Bachelor at 51, Why It's Not Ok To Use Your Phone On Dates, and Shrooms ft. Joe from NadkinsIn this episode, Joe and I talk about being a 51 year old bachelor, getting away with things because of your looks, using your phone on dates, shrooms, sex on a first date, and so much more! 
  • Ariana Grande's Engagement, Texting With More Than One Person, and Cheer-sing On Dates ft. Jordana Kier and Vera PapisovaEpisode 43 is a recording from our live event with Jordana Kier from Lola and Vera Papisova from Teen Vogue. In this episode, we discuss cheers-ing on dates, sexual harassment, why we can't trust magicians, Ariana Grande's engagement, texting with...
  • Needing Validation, Personality > Looks, and Why Casual Sex Is Sad ft. David ShabtaiIn this episode, David and I discuss needing validation, being attracted to personality over looks, people who try to define themselves by their relationships, casual sex and how unrewarding it can be, and so much more!
  • Bringing Politics Into Your Relationship, Reaching Out First On A Dating App, and Dating Cheaters ft. Julia YoungIn this episode, we discuss reaching out to a guy first on dating apps, Westworld, talking about politics in your relationship, dating someone who has cheated before, and MORE! 
  • Fake Spiritual People, Kanye West, and Keeping The Mystery Alive ft. Andre JWe Met At Acme episode 40 features Andre J, our first agender guest. Andre and I discuss keeping the mystery, their sexual preference, fake spiritual people, rude comments on instagram, Kanye West, and so much more! 
  • We Met At Acme Episode 39We Met At Acme Episode 39 features my sister Allie aka @healthyalibi. In this episode we discuss dating as it differs between us, the "no sex before monogamy" rule, how Allie met her fiancé, getting over exes when we date someone new right away, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Physique 57 - the best workout in the world!
  • Why You Shouldn't Marry For Love ft. Rabbi Manis FriedmanWe Met At Acme Episode 38 features Rabbi Manis Friedman, author of The Joy Of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss intimacy, how you shouldn't marry for love, loving everything about someone but not them, and many other incredible and controversial...
  • Bachelor Drama, How To Participate When A Guy Is On Top, and Boring People ft. Corinne OlympiosWe Met At Acme Episode 37 features legend Corinne Olympios from The Bachelor. In this episode, Corinne and I discuss Bachelor drama, guys who like mutes, Corinne's current love life, partipating when a guy is on top, and more! Plus Corinne answers...
  • Guys Who Are Flashy, Talking To Friends About Your Sex Life, Toxic Relationships, and Counting Calories ft. Elizabeth and Dale from Sweats And The CityWe Met At Acme Episode 36 features Elizabeth and Dale from @sweatsandthecity, an Instagram dedicated to all things health and fitness. In this episode, we discuss guys who are flashy with money, telling friends if they've gained weight, how much to...
  • Orbiting, Talking To Exes, Being Almost 30, and Being Able To Pay For Your Own Wedding ft. Kelly KeegsWe Met At Acme Episode 35 features Kelly Keegs, host of the podcast Whine With Kelly. In this episode, we discuss orbiting, reaching out to exes when we see something that reminds us of them, hitting 30, buying a vibrator, being able to pay for...
  • Being Engaged, If You Are Too Picky, Taking Criticism, and Unrealistic Expectations ft. Joshua SternWe Met At Acme Episode 34 features Joshua Stern, founder of I Know The Chef, and co-founder of Wine n Dine and MovieGrade. In this episode, we discuss engaged life, how to know when you've found the one, being too picky, unrealistic expectations, how...
  • Jewish Mothers, Progressive Engagements, and Going Down On People ft. Alex Fine of Dame ProductsWe Met At Acme Episode 33 features Alex Fine, CEO and co-founder of Dame Products and 30 under 30 recipient. In this live episode from Caroline's On Broadway, we discuss everything from Jewish mothers, progressive engagements, going down on people,...
  • Being Emotional and Still Masculine and Dating In Your 30s vs 20s ft. Dan Doty of EvrymanWe Met At Acme Episode 32 features Dan Doty from Evryman. In this episode we discuss the founding of Evryman, The Way Of The Superior Man, how men can be emotional and still be men, accepting different parts of ourselves, dating in 20s vs dating in...
  • Rules For Friendships With The Opposite Sex and Wanting Exes To Want Us ft. Arianna of But Like MaybeWe Met At Acme Episode 31 features comic Arianna of @ButLikeMaybe. In this episode, we discuss getting dumped, rules for being friends with guys, wanting exes to want us, and more!
  • Different Types Of Listening, Is Flirting Cheating?, and Posting A Partner On Social Media ft. Jack MulqueenWe Met At Acme Episode 30 features my friend and nightlife king Jack Mulqueen. Jack just opened an awesome new club called Make Believe, so check it out! In this episode, we discuss dating in nightlie, if flirting is cheating, introducing a partner on...
  • Living With A Man, Our Periods, and Experimental Relationships with Lauren BilleWe Met At Acme Episode 29 features Lauren Bille from Cycles + Sex. In this episode, we discuss what it's like living with men, how regular our periods are, trying new experimental types of relationships, and more!
  • Orgasmic Meditation, Who You Pay For The Uber After Sex, and Gaining Weight In Relationships ft. Jesse IsraelWe Met At Acme Episode 28 features The Big Quiet founder Jesse Israel. On this episode, we discuss orgasmic meditation, masculine and feminine energies, getting a woman an uber when she leaves your place, being held at the end of the day, gaining...
  • Consent Forms, Male Emotions, and Loving Your Parents ft. Remy KassimirWe Met At Acme Episode 27 features my friend Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of How Cum Podcast. In this episode, we discuss consent forms for sex, men not talking about their emotions with their friends, punishments for sexual harassment,...
  • How To Know When Someone Is Into You and Moving On ft. DJ Madison LSTWe Met At Acme Episode 26 features one of Acme's resident DJ's Madison LST. In this episode, we discuss getting over a long relationship, how a threesome can happen naturally, knowing whether someone is into you in the modern dating world, and more!
  • Butterdicks, Age Differences, and Sisters ft. Sophie and CharlotteWe Met At Acme episode 25 features our first live podcast with sisters Charlotte and Sophie Bickley from Yin2MyYang. In this episode we discuss butterdicks, age differences, getting dating help from our sisters, miscommunications on how a date went,...
  • Safe Sex, HPV, Freezing Your Eggs, and IVF ft. Sex Therapist Carli BlauWe Met At Acme Episode 24 features our first sex therapist Carli Blau. In this episode, we discuss what people need to know about safe sex, HPV and herpes, freezing your eggs, IVF, and more!
  • Partners Who Bring Out The Worst In Us and How To Define A Relationship Without Asking "What Are We" ft. Jared Matthew WeissWe Met At Episode 23 features Jared Matthew Weiss, the founder of Touchpoint. Touchpoint is a movement to cultivate emotional, relational, and sexual intelligence by creating space for people to talk to each other. In this episode, we discuss partners...
  • Dating As A Pornstar, Anal, and Gangbangs ft. Asa AkiraWe Met At Acme Episode 22 features pornstar Asa Akira. In this episode, we discuss what it's like to date when you are a pornstar, strange fetishes, anal, gangbangs, Fifty Shades, and more!
  • Getting Hit On In The Club and Sending Nudes ft. Emma and Andrea(Surprise) Episode 21 features Emma and Andrea from The Blond. In this episode, we discuss getting hit on in the club, becoming hot later in life, sending nudes to multiple people on Snapchat, and more!
  • Fighting with Jared Fried over dating moralsWe Met At Acme Episode 20 features comedian Jared Freid. In this episode we discuss how to know if things are on the right track with a guy, when to tell someone you're dating that you're dating other people, how girls will date someone because...
  • BDSM, Sugar Daddies, and Abusive Relationships ft. Julia FoxWe Met At Acme Episode 19 features artist Julia Fox. On this episode, we talk BDSM, abusive relationships, sugar daddies, what to reveal on Instagram, and more.
  • Virginity Pacts, Stingy People, and HQ Trivia ft. Ava and GenevieveWe Met At Acme Episode 18 features my friends Ava and Genevieve. On this episode, we discuss virginity packs, stingy people, guys who talk to us but don't ask us out, HQ Trivia and more!
  • Getting Dumped, Sex Parties, and Prostitutes ft. Mike and Brad from Too Old To DateWe Met At Acme Episode 17 features Mike and Brad from the podcast "Too Old To Date." In this episode, we talk about getting dumped, sex parties, prostitutes, cancelling on dates last minute, and more.
  • How Brooke DeVard Used "The Rules" To Land A HubbyWe Met At Acme Episode 16 features Brooke DeVard, the host of The Naked Beauty Podcast. On this episode we talk beauty (obv), The Rules, astrology, getting ready with a guy around, and more!
  • How Religion Affects Dating, Burning Man, and Keeping Kosher ft. David YarusWe Met At Acme Episode 15 features David Yarus, the founder of JSwipe. In this episode, we discuss how religion affects dating, burning man, the modern version of skipping home after a date, if eating butt is kosher and more.
  • Sexual Harassment, Experimenting in College, and Fetishes ft. Rayna GreenbergWe Met At Acme Episode 14 features Rayna who runs @onehungryjew, a food Instagram account with over 300K followers. On this episode we discuss sexual harassment in the restaurant industry, experimenting in college, fetishes, boundaries, and more!
  • Dating Sober, Holding Grudges, and What Girls Ask ft. Isaac Hindin-MillerWe Met At Acme Episode 13 features Isaac Hindin-Miller, an esteemed writer and relationship expert from New Zealand. Isaac has written for The New York Times, Man Repeller, GQ, Esquire, and others. In this episode we discuss dating when you're sober,...
  • Playing Games, Turbulent Times, and Questionable Work Situations ft. Olivia PerezWe Met At Acme Episode 12 features Olivia Perez, founder of @frndofafrnd and @forbes contributer. In this episode, we discuss game playing, questionable work situations, how turbulant times can sometimes help relationships, and more!
  • Uber Pools, Mental Health, and Should Guys Wear Engagement Rings? ft. HeavvyWe Met At Acme Episode 11 features our first comedian Heavvy, aka Jeff Danson. On this episode we talk about sending a girl home in an Uber pool, engagement rings for guys, the importance of mental health, and more.
  • Hitting On Girls IRL, Eating Ass, and Joining The Mile High Club ft. Alik AlfusWe Met At Acme Episode 10 features Alik Alfus, star of the hit show Made In Chelsea based in the UK. On this episode, we discuss hitting on people IRL, eating butt on a first date, the rules of joining the mile hile club, and more.
  • Taking Sides With A Couple Breaks Up ft. Patric, OG Acme door guyWe Met At Acme Episode 8 features Patric, who runs the door at Acme. In this episode we discuss how to get into Acme if you don't know Patric, taking sides when a couple breaks up, what "not tonight ladies" means, and more.
  • Dating Younger, Threesomes and Squirting ft. Julia MoshyWe Met At Acme Episode 7 features Julia, a student in NYC. We discuss dating younger, hooking up with celebrities, threesomes, and more.
  • Watching Porn and Dating Multiple People ft. Larry The Finance GuyWe Met At Acme Episode 6 features Larry, a Jewish finance guy who lives in NYC. We discuss girls watching porn, dating multiple people at once, Louis CK, and more.
  • Masculine vs Feminine Energy ft. My College Roommate HannahWe Met At Acme Episode 5 features Hannah, Lindsey's college roommate. We discuss dating in Sweden vs. America, masculine and feminine energy, and being upfront with someone you are dating.
  • Texting Etiquette and When To Have Sex ft. BritniWe Met At Acme Episode 4 features Britni, a close friend of mine from BU. On this episode we discuss when to have sex, texting etiquette, condoms, and more.
  • Open Relationships And Dick Videos ft. Mike and JoeWe Met At Acme Episode 3 features Mike and Joe. In our first gay dating episode we discuss open relationships, Kevin Spacey, Instagram, dideos (dick videos), and more.
  • Our first episode! With Jake Smith aka Big WetWe Met At Acme is a podcast by Lindsey Metselaar about millenial dating in NYC. Not affiliated with Acme Restaurant. The first episode features Jake aka Big Wet.

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