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We Met At Acme

with Lindsey Metselaar

We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. This podcast touches on subjects that we don't talk about, but we all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.

Episodes

  • Engaged And Very Enraged
  • The Number One Thing Men Discuss In Therapy ft. Talkspace’s Dr. Meaghan Rice
  • There Is No Such Thing As A Perfect Couple ft. Elin Hilderbrand
  • Every First Date Should Be Dinner ft. Koko
  • How To Crush It On Dating Apps ft. Bre and Shelby
  • Interpreting Texts: Men vs. Women ft. Nicky and Jenna
  • The First Question I Didn’t Need To Turn Into A Poll
  • How To Bring Up Trauma When Newly Dating ft. Matt Bocchi
  • Don’t Compliment A Guy Before You’re Official ft. The Boys From The Latke Room Boys
  • Why Men Love Bitches And Why Men Marry Bitches
  • WTF Is Acme And How Do I Get In? ft. Frankie The Bouncer
  • How To Be Confident Breaking Up Was The Right Decision ft. Caroline Stanbury
  • Debunking Myths About Guys In Their 30s ft. My Producer—Brian Peoples
  • The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik
  • What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer
  • Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff
  • Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia
  • We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves
  • Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley
  • Why There Are No Rules In Gay Dating ft. Matteo Lane
  • Maybe You’re The Problem ft. Whitney Cummings
  • You’ll Have An Orgasm After This ft. Emily Morse
  • Carrie Bradshaw Is Doing Everything Wrong ft. The Bradshaw Boys
  • Date Like He’s Obsessed With You ft. Candice Jalili
  • Why Women Don’t Understand Themselves Sexually ft. Base Founder Lola Priego and House of Wise Founder Amanda Goetz
  • Finding Love In Non-Cringey Ways ft. Lox Club Founder Austin Kevitch
  • The Realest Bravo Housewife: Countess Luann
  • You’ll Never Hear Crazier Dating Stories ft. Jon Laster
  • So You’re Single Again ft. Anisha Ramakrishna
  • Overcoming Our Bad Dating Patterns ft. Christian Gonzalez
  • This Episode Will Get You Hired ft. Deanna Figurito
  • Desperation vs. “Not Playing Games.” ft. Julien
  • How Guys Think vs. How Girls Think
  • Why Ultimatums Are A Bad Idea ft. Megan Roup
  • Why Guys Can’t Get Hard ft. Dr. Justin Houman
  • How To Not Die Alone ft. Logan Ury
  • Do You Know How Much Your Partner Makes? ft. Mrs. Dow Jones
  • Fighting On Valentine’s Day ft. Jonah and Ilana
  • How To Be Happy Single When All Your Friends Are Married ft. Tinx
  • Stop Taking Relationship Advice From Your Friends ft. Estefania Pessoa
  • What You Don't See On Instagram With Melissa Wood-Tepperberg
  • Don’t Call Her Daddy ft. Sofia Franklyn
  • You Should Be Dating Like A Bachelorette ft. Noah Erb
  • Your Dating Attitude Is The Reason You’re Single ft. Tennesha Wood
  • Men Settle More Than Women ft. Ryan and Mouse from Guys Next Door
  • My Secret To Always Having A Boyfriend ft. Erica and Molly from Shooter’s Gotta Shoot
  • Why Men Date Younger And The Only First Date Advice You’ll Ever Need
  • Who Should Feel Luckier In A Relationship? ft. Dre Smith
  • My Parents Met At Acme
  • Don’t Fucking Panic ft. Kelsey Darragh
  • The More You Communicate, The More They Communicate ft. Shaun Galanos
  • How Upfront Should We Be About What We’re Looking For? ft. Chinae Alexander
  • Needing A Boyfriend vs. Needing A Good Boyfriend For You ft. Jared Freid
  • Stop Dating The Bare Minimum Guy ft. Violet Benson
  • Dating App Prompts, Anti-Ghost Texts, And What Matters When Sliding Into DMs ft. Hunter March
  • Let’s Analyze Your COVID Date ft. Harry Hill
  • Why Do You Send A Thank You Text After A Date? ft. Real Housewives of NY’s Elyse Slaine
  • Is Watching Porn Ruining Our Sex Lives? ft. Frank Rich
  • My Relationship Trauma, and How To Heal From Rejection and Cheating
  • How Two 25-Year-Old Guys Think About Dating ft. David and Jake
  • There Are Two Sides To Every Date ft. Vinay Chadha
  • Why You’re Not Getting Asked On A Second Date ft. Damona Hoffman
  • What Your Political Stance Says About You As A Partner ft. TJ Ducklo
  • After Sex Behavior, How To Bring Up Getting Tested, And Sexual Symmetry ft. Dr. Stephen De Wit
  • Knowing Your Marriage Is Over, The Break Up Diet, And Communicating With Your Exes ft. Julie Lauren
  • How To Become Confident, Stay Cool In A Fight, And Be Nice To Yourself ft. Michell Clark
  • Being A Work Wife, Not Wanting Kids, And How To Ask Your Partner For Help ft. Claire and Erica
  • Dating Someone Twice Your Age, Co-Dependence In Quarantine, And Attracting The Right Partner ft. Arielle Lorre
  • Owning Your Body, High-school Sweethearts, And Testing Your Relationship ft. Cameron Rogers
  • How To Trick Men Into Thinking It’s Their Idea ft. Sarah Fraser And Andrea Lopez
  • What A Matchmaker Looks For When Matching Two People ft. Emily Holmes of LastFirst
  • The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets For Capturing the Heart Of Mr. Right ft. The Author herself
  • What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie Robinson
  • An Easy Way For Women To Orgasm And How Important Your Friend Group Is ft. Adam Lyons
  • Why Couples Get Divorced And The Unsexy Conversations You Should Have To Avoid It ft. Laura Wasser
  • Going Through A Break Up During Quarantine, Virtual Dating Tips, And How We Were As Teenagers ft. Kay Brown
  • How To Get Them To Define Things, Dressing For Dates, And The Power Of Social Media ft. Danielle Bernstein
  • There Is No Such Thing As Sexual Incompatibility ft. Ian Ferguson
  • Ending Friendships, Starting New Relationships In Quarantine, and Vanderpump Rules Gossip ft. Kristen Doute
  • Men Want Sex, Women Want Security ft. Rob Kowalski
  • First Relationships, Sticking Around When A Guy Doesn't Define Things, And Why Living Together Is Hard ft. My Friend Leo Sloan
  • Pursuing A Man Successfully, Abusive Relationship Patterns, And Fighting In Quarantine ft. Jeannie and Clem
  • My Dating Rules, Tips For Quarantining With A Partner, And Meeting The Parents On Zoom
  • Getting Sober, Dating Sober, And A Successful Set Up ft. Sarah Levy
  • Why You Should Date A Sign You Aren’t Compatible With ft. Colin Bedell
  • They’re Not Your Ex If They Haven’t Met Your Family, Dating Two People At Once, And Sharing Traumas ft. Dan Perlman
  • A Live Psychic Reading, Bisexual Experiences, and Standards vs. Expectations ft. Mickey Grossman
  • Why Guys Always Come Back, How To Lower Your Expectations, And After Date Follow Up ft. Chanel Omari
  • Why Breaks Are A Red Flag, What Rebounding Entails, And Comparing New People To Exes ft. Elizabeth Endres
  • Dating Without Dating Apps, Closure Conversations, And Why Exclusivity Is Bullshit
  • But Like Maybe Don’t… Do Any Of These Things ft. Arianna Margulis
  • How Much Men Care About Looks, Putting Yourself Out There, And The Difference Between A First And Second Date ft. Harrison And Brandon from The UpDating Show
  • My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon Aslay
  • Getting Financially Naked: When You Should Ask A Partner What They Make And Why Prenups Are Crucial ft. Shannon McLay
  • What Isn’t Attractive To Guys, Wishing Your Ex A HBD, and Dating Someone With Addiction
  • Live Podcast at Bowery Ballroom (ft. Nick Viall, Tori Piskin, Alyssa Coscarelli, and Justin McLeod)
  • Why Men Sleep With You On The First Date Because They’re Insecure, Being A Player In The Age Of Feminism, And Getting Divorced By Age 26.
  • Breaking Off Engagements, Body Image, And Not Bringing Out The Best In Each Other ft. Anne Mahlum
  • Living With A Partner For The First Time, Stigmas About Working For Your Parents, And Not Getting Married Until You’re Financially Set ft. The Zabar Twins
  • Settling vs. Compromising, Emotionally Abusive Relationships, And My Parents Love Story
  • WTF Is Mercury In Retrograde, Biological Clocks, And Can You Get Out Of The Friendzone? ft. That’s So Retrograde
  • What A 26 Year Old Guy Is Looking For, PTSD From Exes, And When You’re Into Someone But The Timing Is Off ft. Kia
  • Marriage Timelines and Ultimatums, Eating Issues, Demanding Friendships, and Tips To Move On.
  • On/Off Relationships, Bullying, Nosejobs, And How Much To Share On Social Media with Michaela Podolsky
  • Mental Health, The Correct Way To Slide Into Someone’s DMs, And Why You Should Wait To Have Sex with Atlanta De Cadenet Taylor
  • Adam4Adam, Taking On Someone Else’s Debt, And If Opposites Actually Attract with Marko
  • Serial Monogamy, Superstitions In Dating, And Pre-Sex Sleepovers With Lucas O’Neil
  • Finding Love Again And Staying Healthy On Dates with Tanya Zuckerbrot
  • Wedding, Venmo, and Dating Etiquette with Myka
  • NYC Date Nite + My Theory About Guys
  • Farmer Nick + the Dos and Don't of dating app profiles
  • Almost Breaking Up, When To Have The Marriage Convo, And What People Say When They're Not Ready ft. Julie Lauren
  • Our 100th Episode! Featuring a solo podcast + Katie and Brian!
  • Jule the Bee plus a preview of our live show in LA
  • Jule the Bee plus a preview of our live show in LA
  • 36 Questions That Lead To Love + Yummertime!
  • The Ladies from Uncensored Thoughts
  • Lindsey's 2nd Solo Podcast and A Clip From Our Bowery Ballroom Show
  • Kimmy and Liza from 51 First Dates
  • Lindsey's Solo Episode!
  • Why Men Are Afraid Of Therapy ft. Josh Roberts
  • All About Human Design: Do You Know Yours? ft. Erin Claire Jones
  • Pride Weekend! featuring Carly and Shelby
  • Live Panel in Chicago
  • Rori Sasson, author of The Art Of The Date and founder of Platinum Poire
  • Freezing Your Eggs, Reflecting On Your 20s, and Songs For Your Dating App Profiles ft. Missy Modell
  • A Conversation With A Real Life Fuckboy ft. Lindsey's friend Jonah
  • Taking Someone Back After They Cheat Ft. Paige DeSorbo from Summer House
  • Ghosts Who Haunt Us, and Who Proposes With Two Guys ft. Mike Kelton
  • SURPRISE PROPOSAL: WOMAN THAT MET HER BOYFRIEND AT ACME PROPOSES
  • Mark Manson, author of "F*** Yes Or No"
  • The Couple That Keeps A Sex Journal
  • F*** it, get a divorce ft. Steve Kane
  • What's Acceptable To Ask A Queer Person, And Moving On Fast Is Okay
  • Singer/Songwriter Jake Miller
  • Scheana from Vanderpump Rules
  • Dating and Attraction Coach Connell Barrett
  • Dating Women, Quitting Ciggs, and Finding Someone When You Least Expect It ft. Carly Chaikin
  • Hannah Berner from Berning In Hell and Summer House
  • Jonathan Shokrian from MeUndies
  • Lindsey’s Amazing Therapist
  • Storyteller Caroline Calloway
  • Guys Who Finish Quickly, Long Distance Relationships, Scheduling Sex, and Defining Relationships Before Sex ft. Thomas and Tucker
  • Saturn Return, Past Lives, Meeting People You Aren't Meant To Meet, and Self Awareness ft. Aliza Kelly
  • Female Entrepreneurship, Supporting Your Partner, Showing Up For People, and New York vs. LA ft. Sally Kim of Crushed Tonic
  • Dealbreakers, Dating With A Positive Attitude, Love Languages, and Moving In Together ft. Oliver Kremer of Dos Toros
  • Britni Interviews Me On Why I Created The Podcast And We Discuss What Qualities To Look For In A Partner and Why You Shouldn't Have Sex On A First Date
  • Bridesmaids For Hire, Worst Wedding Experiences, Opening Up To Strangers, and Being Helpful In A Wedding Party ft. Jen Glantz
  • Long-term Relationships, Jealousy, What Sex-Ed Didn't Teach Us, Boarding School, Energy, and STDs ft. James Kavanagh
  • Relationship Expectations, Dating Anxiety, Healing, and Intuitive Dating ft. Nikki Novo
  • ASMR, Religious Cults, Being Very Single, Two Week Relationships, and Bad Dating App Experiences ft. Musician Kyan Palmer
  • Gender Reassignment Surgery, and Cyber Bullying ft. Trans Activist and Model Corey Rae
  • Kissing And Telling, Connecting vs. Just Being Attracted, and Nick's Favorite Bachelor Date ft. Nick Viall
  • Making The First Move, Different Types Of Orgasms, The Gooch, and Proper Anal ft. Sexologist Shan Boodram
  • Exes Coming Out, Paying On Dates, Therapy, Dating A Comedian, and Stalking Exes ft. Sam Morril
  • Zodiac Sign Compatibility, Birth Charts, Nature Vs. Nurture, and The Importance Of The Moon ft. Nadine Jane
  • Dating When You're A Celeb, The #metoo Movement, And Trust In A Relationship ft. Jerry Ferrara from Entourage
  • Fuckboy vs. Nonfuckboy Behavior, Body Hair, Bi-Coastal Relationships, and Healthy Sex Lives ft. Josh Kaplan
  • Growing Up In NYC vs. Moving Here, Keeping Nudes, And What To Say On A Dating App ft. Serena Kerrigan
  • Meet Cutes, Converting For A Partner, and Dating Preferences ft. Jonah, Jared, Jake, and Meredith
  • Midwives, IUD's, Pregnancy, and Eating Your Placenta ft. Jori
  • We Met At Acme Episode 49 with Ross Asdourian, author of the book Broken Bananah: Life, Love, and Sex ... Without a Penis.
  • Turn-Ons, Lube, Enneagrams, And Attachment Styles ft. Chrissy Ford of Harper's Bazaar
  • Meeting IRL vs. Apps, Men Who Are Too Into Social Media, and Kelly Ripa ft. Emma from Comments By Celebs
  • Lesbian Dating, The Sexuality Spectrum, and Who Pays On A First Date For Two Women ft. Devyn Sloane
  • Ghosting, Healing From Break Ups, and Attachment Styles (The Book "Attached") ft. Amy Chan
  • Being A Bachelor at 51, Why It's Not Ok To Use Your Phone On Dates, and Shrooms ft. Joe from Nadkins
  • Ariana Grande's Engagement, Texting With More Than One Person, and Cheer-sing On Dates ft. Jordana Kier and Vera Papisova
  • Needing Validation, Personality > Looks, and Why Casual Sex Is Sad ft. David Shabtai
  • Bringing Politics Into Your Relationship, Reaching Out First On A Dating App, and Dating Cheaters ft. Julia Young
  • Fake Spiritual People, Kanye West, and Keeping The Mystery Alive ft. Andre J
  • My Sister’s Rules vs. Mine
  • Why You Shouldn't Marry For Love ft. Rabbi Manis Friedman
  • Bachelor Drama, How To Participate When A Guy Is On Top, and Boring People ft. Corinne Olympios
  • Guys Who Are Flashy, Talking To Friends About Your Sex Life, Toxic Relationships, and Counting Calories ft. Elizabeth and Dale from Sweats And The City
  • Orbiting, Talking To Exes, Being Almost 30, and Being Able To Pay For Your Own Wedding ft. Kelly Keegs
  • Being Engaged, If You Are Too Picky, Taking Criticism, and Unrealistic Expectations ft. Joshua Stern
  • Jewish Mothers, Progressive Engagements, and Going Down On People ft. Alex Fine of Dame Products
  • Being Emotional and Still Masculine and Dating In Your 30s vs 20s ft. Dan Doty of Evryman
  • Rules For Friendships With The Opposite Sex and Wanting Exes To Want Us ft. Arianna of But Like Maybe
  • Different Types Of Listening, Is Flirting Cheating?, and Posting A Partner On Social Media ft. Jack Mulqueen
  • Living With A Man, Our Periods, and Experimental Relationships with Lauren Bille
  • Orgasmic Meditation, Who Should Pay For The Uber After Sex, and Gaining Weight In Relationships ft. Jesse Israel
  • Consent Forms, Male Emotions, and Loving Your Parents ft. Remy Kassimir
  • How To Know When Someone Is Into You and Moving On ft. DJ Madison LST
  • Butterdicks, Age Differences, and Sisters ft. Sophie and Charlotte
  • Safe Sex, HPV, Freezing Your Eggs, and IVF ft. Sex Therapist Carli Blau
  • Partners Who Bring Out The Worst In Us and How To Define A Relationship Without Asking "What Are We" ft. Jared Matthew Weiss
  • Dating As A Pornstar, Anal, and Gangbangs ft. Asa Akira
  • Getting Hit On In The Club and Sending Nudes ft. Emma and Andrea
  • Fighting with Jared Fried over dating morals
  • BDSM, Sugar Daddies, and Abusive Relationships ft. Julia Fox
  • Virginity Pacts, Stingy People, and HQ Trivia ft. Ava and Genevieve
  • Getting Dumped, Sex Parties, and Prostitutes ft. Mike and Brad from Too Old To Date
  • How Brooke DeVard Used "The Rules" To Land A Hubby
  • How Religion Affects Dating, Burning Man, and Keeping Kosher ft. David Yarus
  • Sexual Harassment, Experimenting in College, and Fetishes ft. Rayna Greenberg
  • Dating Sober, Holding Grudges, and What Girls Ask ft. Isaac Hindin-Miller
  • Playing Games, Turbulent Times, and Questionable Work Situations ft. Olivia Perez
  • Uber Pools, Mental Health, and Should Guys Wear Engagement Rings? ft. Heavvy
  • Hitting On Girls IRL, Eating Ass, and Joining The Mile High Club ft. Alik Alfus
  • Taking Sides With A Couple Breaks Up ft. Patric, OG Acme door guy
  • Dating Younger, Threesomes and Squirting ft. Julia Moshy
  • Masculine vs Feminine Energy ft. My College Roommate Hannah
  • Texting Etiquette and When To Have Sex ft. Britni
  • Open Relationships And Dick Videos ft. Mike and Joe
  • Our first episode! With Jake Smith aka Big Wet
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