We Met At Acme

with Lindsey Metselaar

We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. This podcast touches on subjects that we don't talk about, but we all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.


Episodes

  • Rori Sasson, author of The Art Of The Date and founder of Platinum PoireIn this episode, Rori and I discuss men's unrealistic expectations, having a 21 year age difference with your partner, having a male gyno, why you need more in common than less, spending money to meet someone, why you shouldn't have sex on a first...
  • Missy Modell, host of The Nest and founder of YES MAMIn this episode, Missy and I talk about eating healthy, not wanting to freeze eggs, becoming a different person every year of your 20s and 30s, our dating app songs and profiles, splitting the bill, times where we weren't picky, and so much...
  • Lindsey's Friend Jonah FeingoldIn this episode, Jonah and I discuss our high school reunions, wanting to skip first dates and go on second ones, being a fuckboy, what a fuckboy actually is, keeping someone on their toes, when breaks can be beneficial, and so much more!   ...
  • Paige DeSorbo from Summer HouseIn this episode with Paige from Summer House, we talk about turning friendship into a relationship, dating an older guy, taking someone back who cheated on you, men who care about religion, the effects of reality TV, and so much more!
  • Producer, Comedian, Director, and Aquarius Mike KeltonIn this episode, Mike and I talk about having a finsta, ghosts, mental health, who proposes in a gay couple, skipping the engagement period, the proposal photo that has a dick in it, the gay mating call look, spray tanning and so much more! 
  • SURPRISE PROPOSAL: WOMAN THAT MET HER BOYFRIEND AT ACME PROPOSESIn this SPECIAL SURPRISE proposal episode, I talk to Meghan Asha and Lev Brie about how they met at Acme! We also discuss running start-ups, how entrepreneurship mentality coincides with relationship mentality, meeting once a week about your...
  • Mark Manson, author of "F*** Yes Or No"In this episode of We Met At Acme, I sit down with one of my favorite writers Mark Manson. Mark has a new book coming out called "Everything Is Fucked." We discuss when Mark was a dating coach, what inspired him to write Fuck Yes Or No, how long you...
  • The Couple That Keeps A Sex JournalIn this episode, I sit down with Levina Li and Caleb Spaulding, founders and creators of "A Sex Journal." We discuss journaling after sex, Evryman, going from friends to dating, working on ourselves, navigating fights in relationships, stepping...
  • LIVE: Package Free Sustainable Love PanelWe Met At Acme host Lindsey Metselaar moderates a panel at Package Free Shop with Elliott Sailors, gender fluid model, LGBTQ+ advocate, Founder of the “ be you be true” movement, and CoCreator of tom is not a boy, Laura Delarato, nude model, body...
  • Steve Kane, author of "F*** it. Get a Divorce"In this episode, Steve and I talk about how to know if you should get a divorce, if you're unhappy in a moment vs unhappy in general, ages 26 vs 56, how much luck plays into relationships, having the same problems in different partnerships, if...
  • Comedian Ali KolbertIn this episode, Ali and I discuss what "brunch" has become, how she met her current girlfriend IRL, the stigma around moving on really fast, stalking your partner's social media, how important trust is, how you should break up if you have a desire to...
  • Singer/Songwriter Jake MillerIn this episode, Jake and I talk about how he got into music, his big break, aim away messages, opening for Snoop Dogg, his friendship with Colton Underwood, people who go on dating apps to look for friends, when it's appropriate to be on your phone,...
  • Scheana from Vanderpump RulesIn this episode, Scheana and I talk about how Vanderpump Rules began in the first place, the Eddie Cibrian/Brandy drama, her current relationship status, being married to someone with addiction, why she froze her eggs, hooking up with John Mayer, who...
  • Dating and Attraction Coach Connell BarrettIn this episode, Connell and I discuss the no game game, being vulnerable, how men overthink dating, getting out of the friendzone, the difference between pick up artists and sincere guys, roadblocks for men when dating, attracting vs connecting, male...
  • Actress Carly Chaikin from Mr. RobotWe Met At Acme Episode 75 features my friend Carly Chaikin, best known for her role as Darlene in Mr. Robot. Carly also starred in Suburgatory, The Last Song, and many more amazing films. In this episode, Carly and I discuss finding someone when...
  • Marc Weinstein: our favorite character in the Fyre Festival documentaryIn We Met At Acme Episode 74, Marc and I discuss his long distance girlfriend, early I-love-you’s, LA vs NY, birth order, how Marc got involved in Fyre Fest, the evacuation, the aftermath, how social media affects our generation, comparing Instagram...
  • Hannah Berner from Berning In Hell and Summer HouseOn this episode, Hannah and I discuss our demons, talking shit, playing tennis, tall guys, dating comedians, why you shouldn't take advice from your single friends, objectifying men, break up advice, insecurities, girls who are funny, fighting well,...
  • Jonathan Shokrian from MeUndiesIn this episode, we talk to Jonathan Shokrian aka Shok, the founder and CEO of MeUndies. We discuss Persian weddings, new relationships, Shok's experience in prison, the flaws of the system, bonds that Shok built with the other inmates, growing up in...
  • Lindsey’s Amazing TherapistIn this episode, my incredible therapist Cecilia and I talk about her methods, core mindfulness, tolerating pain, reaction management, if everyone should experience therapy, emotional mind, reasonable mind, wise mind, and so much more!
  • Storyteller Caroline CallowayIn this episode with Caroline Calloway, we talk about how she ended up at Cambridge, her quintuple Sagittarius, being labeled as a scammer, how we define influencers, adderall addiction, sexual confidence, learning how to handle Instagram fame, and...
  • Episode 69 with Thomas and Tucker from The UndesirablesIn this episode, I chat with Thomas and Tucker, co-hosts of the Undesirables Podcast. We discuss defining a relationship before sleeping together, talking during sex, being turned off, guys who finish quickly, long distance, communication priorities,...
  • Episode 68 with astrologer and author Aliza KellyIn this episode, Aliza and I talk about our Saturn return (it happens between late 20s and early 30s), hereditary lines, past lives, cardinal/mutable/fixed signs, dating apps, meeting people we “weren’t meant to meet”, sign...
  • Episode 67 with Sally Kim, founder of Crushed TonicIn this episode, Sally and I discuss why she created Crushed Tonic, New York people vs LA people, being a female entrepreneur, jealous guys, the importance of supporting your partner, turning networking into a date, showing up for people, and so...
  • Episode 66 with Oliver Kremer, co-founder of Dos Toros.In this episode, Oliver and I discuss dating apps, how technology influences our conversations, dealbreakers, dating with a positive attitude, acting with intention, intellectual connection, love languages, being adventurous in a relationship, how to...
  • Episode 65 with Lindsey (our host) Being InterviewedIn this episode, Lindsey Metselaar, host of the podcast, is interviewed by her dear friend, Britni. Lindsey discusses everything from why she created the podcast, what qualities to look for in a partner, therapy, sex on a first date, poll questions...
  • Episode 64 with Bridesmaid For Hire Jen GlantzIn this episode, Jen and I discuss what it looks like to be a bridesmaid for hire, bad breakups, dating app romances, her worst hired bridesmaid experience(s), how opening up to strangers can be easier than opening up to friends, how to treat the...
  • Episode 63 with social media personality James KavanaghWe Met At Acme episode 63 features our first Irishman James Kavanagh! On this episode, we discuss gay long-term relationships, jealousy, what we DON’T learn from sex-ed, how to learn about good sex, the boarding school experience, attracting those...
  • Episode 62 with intuitive dating coach Nikki NovoIn this episode, Nikki and I discuss putting expectations on a relationship, betas, healing, feeling the presence of people who have passed on, psychedelics, dating anxiety, Nikki’s 3 stage program, creating space within yourself, clarity on what...
  • Episode 61 with musician Kyan PalmerIn this episode, Kyan, 24, and I talk about being veryyyy single, two-week relationships, bad dating app experiences, his desire for his partner to be a teacher, ASMR, religious cults, one of our favorite topics, sex on a first date, and so much more!...
  • Episode 60 with trans activist and model Corey RaeIn this episode, Corey and I discuss being transgender from birth, cyber bullying, dating while trans, getting surgery, dating apps and people’s responses, transgender idols/icons, and so much more!    This episode is...
  • Episode 59 with Nick Viall from The BachelorIn this episode, Nick and I discuss his best bachelor date, connecting with someone vs just being attracted to them, kissing and telling, dating apps, how to weed out the fame-chasers vs genuinely interested women, sex on the first date, gender roles...
  • Episode 58 with sexologist Shan BoodramWe Met At Acme Episode 58 features Shan Boody, the Martha Stewart of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss making the first move, the steps of intimacy, consent and intent, knowing what works for you in the bedroom, different types of orgasms, doing...
  • Episode 57 with comedian Sam Morril
  • Episode 56 with astrologist Nadine JaneIn this episode, Nadine and I discuss the purpose of astrological readings, the importance of the moon, sign compatibility , the meaning of Venus in retrograde, the birth chart, the houses, nature vs nurture, birth order, and so much more!
  • Episode 55 with Jerry FerraraWe Met At Acme Episode 55 features actor Jerry Ferrera of Entourage. In this episode, we discuss how Jerry landed his gorgeous wife, pre-Entourage dating vs post-Entourage dating, what it’s like to be super famous, women expecting him to actually be...
  • Episode 54 our live podcast at Furla with Cass DiMicco and Alicia BenilevyIn this episode, we discuss NY fashion week, the Cardi and Nicki drama, best date spots, our partners style, first date outfits, matching, confidence, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Thrive Market. Go to thrivemarket.com/acme to...
  • Episode 53 with Josh Kaplan from Buck MasonWe Met At Acme Episode 53 features Josh from Buck Mason, a menswear brand out of LA. In this episode, we discuss defining the relationship, indicators of fuckboy and non-fuckboy behavior, body hair, how golf is a way to get away from your partner,...
  • Episode 52 featuring Serena Fucking KerriganWe Met At Acme Episode 52 features Serena Fucking Kerrigan from Refinery 29. We discuss what it’s like growing up in the city vs moving here after school, ambivalence toward dating apps, how to handle dating app matches, age difference in...
  • Episode 51 - Live Panel from UJAWe Met At Acme Episode 51 is a recording of We Met At UJA, our live panel event with Jonah Feingold, Jared Matthew Weiss, Meredith Davis, and Jake Walker. On this panel, we talk about meet cutes, Judaism, converting for a partner, dating preferences,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 50 featuring our first midwife JoriWe Met At Acme Episode 50 features Jori, our first midwife. In this episode, Jori and I discuss what midwives do, differences in healthcare around the world, contraception, IUD's, pregnancy and knowing when to get pregnant, eating your placenta, and A...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 49 with Ross Asdourian, author of the book Broken Bananah: Life, Love, and Sex ... Without a Penis.We Met At Acme Episode 49 features Ross Asdourian, author of Broken Bananah. In this episode, we discuss how Ross broke his penis, walking the line between emasculating and contributing your fair share, Instagram models, tabouli-gate, love for your family vs love for your partner; dating app profiles, sex dreams, circumcision, and so much more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 48 with Chrissy Rutherford from Harper’s BazaarWe Met At Acme episode 48 features Chrissy Rutherford aka @chrissyford, a digital editor at Harper’s Bazaar. In this episode; we talk turn ons, lube, break ups and moving on from them, dealing with cheating in a new relationship, attachment styles,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 47 Emma and Julie from Comments By CelebsWe Met At Acme Episode 47 features Emma and Julie from everyone's favorite Instagram account @commentsbycelebs. In this episode, we discuss how the account started, being blessed by Kelly Ripa, open relationships and if they are ever really fair,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 46 with Devyn SloaneWe Met At Acme Episode 46 features my friend Devyn, who is also our first lesbian guest! In this episode, we discuss best friends same-sex crushes, lesbian porn, coming out, the sexuality spectrum, who pays on first dates, the lesbian scene in NYC,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 45 with Amy Chan from Renew Breakup Boot CampEpisode 45 featuresAmy Chan, founder of Renew Breakup Boot Camp. In this episode, we discuss the renew program, ghosting, break-ups and their different stages,anxious/avoidant attachment styles, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 44 with Joe from NadkinsIn this episode, Joe and I talk about being a 51 year old bachelor, getting away with things because of your looks, using your phone on dates, shrooms, sex on a first date, and so much more! 
  • We Met At Acme Episode 43 Flying Solo live podcast with Jordana Kier from Lola and Vera Papisova from Teen VogueEpisode 43 is a recording from our live event with Jordana Kier from Lola and Vera Papisova from Teen Vogue. In this episode, we discuss cheers-ing on dates, sexual harassment, why we can't trust magicians, Ariana Grande's engagement, texting with...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 42 with David ShabtaiIn this episode, David and I discuss needing validation, being attracted to personality over looks, people who try to define themselves by their relationships, casual sex and how unrewarding it can be, and so much more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 41 featuring Julia Young from Wild N' OutIn this episode, we discuss reaching out to a guy first on dating apps, Westworld, talking about politics in your relationship, dating someone who has cheated before, and MORE! 
  • We Met At Acme Episode 40We Met At Acme episode 40 features Andre J, our first agender guest. Andre and I discuss keeping the mystery, their sexual preference, fake spiritual people, rude comments on instagram, Kanye West, and so much more! 
  • We Met At Acme Episode 39We Met At Acme Episode 39 features my sister Allie aka @healthyalibi. In this episode we discuss dating as it differs between us, the "no sex before monogamy" rule, how Allie met her fiancé, getting over exes when we date someone new right away, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Physique 57 - the best workout in the world!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 38We Met At Acme Episode 38 features Rabbi Manis Friedman, author of The Joy Of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss intimacy, how you shouldn't marry for love, loving everything about someone but not them, and many other incredible and controversial...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 37We Met At Acme Episode 37 features legend Corinne Olympios from The Bachelor. In this episode, Corinne and I discuss Bachelor drama, guys who like mutes, Corinne's current love life, partipating when a guy is on top, and more! Plus Corinne answers...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 36We Met At Acme Episode 36 features Elizabeth and Dale from @sweatsandthecity, an Instagram dedicated to all things health and fitness. In this episode, we discuss guys who are flashy with money, telling friends if they've gained weight, how much to...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 35We Met At Acme Episode 35 features Kelly Keegs, host of the podcast Whine With Kelly. In this episode, we discuss orbiting, reaching out to exes when we see something that reminds us of them, hitting 30, buying a vibrator, being able to pay for...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 34We Met At Acme Episode 34 features Joshua Stern, founder of I Know The Chef, and co-founder of Wine n Dine and MovieGrade. In this episode, we discuss engaged life, how to know when you've found the one, being too picky, unrealistic expectations, how...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 33We Met At Acme Episode 33 features Alex Fine, CEO and co-founder of Dame Products and 30 under 30 recipient. In this live episode from Caroline's On Broadway, we discuss everything from Jewish mothers, progressive engagements, going down on people,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 32We Met At Acme Episode 32 features Dan Doty from Evryman. In this episode we discuss the founding of Evryman, The Way Of The Superior Man, how men can be emotional and still be men, accepting different parts of ourselves, dating in 20s vs dating in...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 31We Met At Acme Episode 31 features comic Arianna of @ButLikeMaybe. In this episode, we discuss getting dumped, rules for being friends with guys, wanting exes to want us, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 30We Met At Acme Episode 30 features my friend and nightlife king Jack Mulqueen. Jack just opened an awesome new club called Make Believe, so check it out! In this episode, we discuss dating in nightlie, if flirting is cheating, introducing a partner on...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 29We Met At Acme Episode 29 features Lauren Bille from Cycles + Sex. In this episode, we discuss what it's like living with men, how regular our periods are, trying new experimental types of relationships, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 28We Met At Acme Episode 28 features The Big Quiet founder Jesse Israel. On this episode, we discuss orgasmic meditation, masculine and feminine energies, getting a woman an uber when she leaves your place, being held at the end of the day, gaining...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 27We Met At Acme Episode 27 features my friend Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of How Cum Podcast. In this episode, we discuss consent forms for sex, men not talking about their emotions with their friends, punishments for sexual harassment,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 26We Met At Acme Episode 26 features one of Acme's resident DJ's Madison LST. In this episode, we discuss getting over a long relationship, how a threesome can happen naturally, knowing whether someone is into you in the modern dating world, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 25We Met At Acme episode 25 features our first live podcast with sisters Charlotte and Sophie Bickley from Yin2MyYang. In this episode we discuss butterdicks, age differences, getting dating help from our sisters, miscommunications on how a date went,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 24We Met At Acme Episode 24 features our first sex therapist Carli Blau. In this episode, we discuss what people need to know about safe sex, HPV and herpes, freezing your eggs, IVF, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 23We Met At Episode 23 features Jared Matthew Weiss, the founder of Touchpoint. Touchpoint is a movement to cultivate emotional, relational, and sexual intelligence by creating space for people to talk to each other. In this episode, we discuss partners...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 22We Met At Acme Episode 22 features pornstar Asa Akira. In this episode, we discuss what it's like to date when you are a pornstar, strange fetishes, anal, gangbangs, Fifty Shades, and more!
  • We Met At Acme (Surprise) Episode 21(Surprise) Episode 21 features Emma and Andrea from The Blond. In this episode, we discuss getting hit on in the club, becoming hot later in life, sending nudes to multiple people on Snapchat, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 20We Met At Acme Episode 20 features comedian Jared Freid. In this episode we discuss how to know if things are on the right track with a guy, when to tell someone you're dating that you're dating other people, how girls will date someone because...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 19We Met At Acme Episode 19 features artist Julia Fox. On this episode, we talk BDSM, abusive relationships, sugar daddies, what to reveal on Instagram, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 18We Met At Acme Episode 18 features my friends Ava and Genevieve. On this episode, we discuss virginity packs, stingy people, guys who talk to us but don't ask us out, HQ Trivia and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 17We Met At Acme Episode 17 features Mike and Brad from the podcast "Too Old To Date." In this episode, we talk about getting dumped, sex parties, prostitutes, cancelling on dates last minute, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 16We Met At Acme Episode 16 features Brooke DeVard, the host of The Naked Beauty Podcast. On this episode we talk beauty (obv), The Rules, astrology, getting ready with a guy around, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 15We Met At Acme Episode 15 features David Yarus, the founder of JSwipe. In this episode, we discuss how religion affects dating, burning man, the modern version of skipping home after a date, if eating butt is kosher and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 14We Met At Acme Episode 14 features Rayna who runs @onehungryjew, a food Instagram account with over 300K followers. On this episode we discuss sexual harassment in the restaurant industry, experimenting in college, fetishes, boundaries, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 13We Met At Acme Episode 13 features Isaac Hindin-Miller, an esteemed writer and relationship expert from New Zealand. Isaac has written for The New York Times, Man Repeller, GQ, Esquire, and others. In this episode we discuss dating when you're sober,...
  • We Met At Acme Episode 12We Met At Acme Episode 12 features Olivia Perez, founder of @frndofafrnd and @forbes contributer. In this episode, we discuss game playing, questionable work situations, how turbulant times can sometimes help relationships, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 11We Met At Acme Episode 11 features our first comedian Heavvy, aka Jeff Danson. On this episode we talk about sending a girl home in an Uber pool, engagement rings for guys, the importance of mental health, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 10We Met At Acme Episode 10 features Alik Alfus, star of the hit show Made In Chelsea based in the UK. On this episode, we discuss hitting on people IRL, eating butt on a first date, the rules of joining the mile hile club, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 9We Met At Acme Episode 9 features Danielle Bernstein of We Wore What, a fashion blog with over 1 million followers. In this episode we discuss dating as an influencer, keeping a new relationship sacred, how vests are dead, and more!
  • We Met At Acme Episode 8We Met At Acme Episode 8 features Patric, who runs the door at Acme. In this episode we discuss how to get into Acme if you don't know Patric, taking sides when a couple breaks up, what "not tonight ladies" means, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 7We Met At Acme Episode 7 features Julia, a student in NYC. We discuss dating younger, hooking up with celebrities, threesomes, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 6We Met At Acme Episode 6 features Larry, a Jewish finance guy who lives in NYC. We discuss girls watching porn, dating multiple people at once, Louis CK, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 5We Met At Acme Episode 5 features Hannah, Lindsey's college roommate. We discuss dating in Sweden vs. America, masculine and feminine energy, and being upfront with someone you are dating.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 4We Met At Acme Episode 4 features Britni, a close friend of mine from BU. On this episode we discuss when to have sex, texting etiquette, condoms, and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 3We Met At Acme Episode 3 features Mike and Joe. In our first gay dating episode we discuss open relationships, Kevin Spacey, Instagram, dideos (dick videos), and more.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 2We Met At Acme Episode 2 features K, a producer and native New Yorker who is recently single and dating in NYC.
  • We Met At Acme Episode 1We Met At Acme is a podcast by Lindsey Metselaar about millenial dating in NYC. Not affiliated with Acme Restaurant. The first episode features Jake aka Big Wet.