Relationships

10 Apps for Couples to Keep Their Spark Alive

By Dear Media | January 2, 2025

Couples apps, where do we even begin? In this day and age, there’s an app for pretty much everything, including your relationship! And, we’ll tell you, these digital sidekicks can be a game-changer when it comes to boosting that special bond with your partner.

These apps are a super fun way to strengthen your relationship. Whether it’s syncing your schedules with a shared calendar (no more “Wait, didn’t you say we had dinner with your parents tonight?”) or sharing cute pics from your recent adventures, they’re here to make life easier and help you feel more connected to your S.O.!

Sharing your life through these apps is what every thriving relationship needs. This is why today, we’re serving a round-up of the best apps for lovebirds everywhere. But before we dig in, dive into the episode of We Met at Acme (our fave dating podcast) called Dating App Prompts, Anti-Ghost Texts, and What Matters When Sliding Into. It’s a must-listen!

Get ready to crush those couple goals.

Love Nudge

Love Nudge is the app you didn’t know your relationship needed. It’s like having a relationship coach in your pocket but cuter and way more fun. (Cheaper, too.)

This app syncs with your love languages and helps you figure out what makes your heart (and your partner’s) swoon: words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts, or physical touch. (Here’s more on love languages from Twenty Whatever!) Then, it turns that knowledge into actionable goals, AKA sweet gestures that keep the spark alive.

Forget guessing; the app nudges (yes, nudges) you with reminders and fun tasks tailored to your partner’s love language preferences. The app even has progress trackers because, honestly, we sometimes need a little extra push to prioritize the romance. It’s modern love but on efficiency steroids.

Cupla

If you and your partner are juggling personal and professional commitments while trying to maintain your relationship, run, don’t walk, to download Cupla right now.

Cupla is the ultimate shared calendar and relationship management tool that allows both of you to stay synced on everything from work deadlines to date nights. Its to-do list ensures you’ll never forget to schedule an anniversary dinner (or to pick up milk), and the dual schedule options (personal and shared) allows you to balance “me time” and “we time.” Plus, its widgets let you access all these features right from your home screen. SO handy!

Honeydue

Ladies and gentlemen, put on your Transform hat, because this app is about to do just that for your relationship. Introducing Honeydue, the go-to app for couples who are ready to boss up their finances together and start outsmarting money like the power couple you are.

Honeydue syncs with over 20,000 financial institutions, allowing both of you to view accounts, transactions, and balances in one place. But don’t worry; no one is going to be snooping on your finances! You can decide exactly what to share and what to keep private. So yes, your latte and doughnut obsession is safe. (If you want more on finances in relationships, listen to this episode of We Met at Acme called How Much Does Your Partner Make?)

No more confusing spreadsheets about who pays what bill and no more keeping track of vacation savings on a sheet of paper tacked to the wall. Bye-bye analog ways of the past! Honeydue categorizes your expenses automatically so you can easily track how much you make versus how much you’re spending and saving. And, the exciting part is that this app is entirely free. However, you can choose to support its growth with a monthly contribution if you feel like it.

Intimately Us

If you and your boo are looking to spice things up in the bedroom and strengthen your emotional connection at the same time, then you need to get your hands on the Intimately Us app, stat.

First of all, can we just talk about how Intimately Us is the perfect blend of fun, sexy, and super educational? With personalized intimacy challenges, steamy bedroom games, and a whole library of expert-approved sex education resources, this app is going to take your sex life to a whole new level.

Intimately Us also comes loaded with prompts and activities to help you and your partner strengthen your emotional intimacy. After all, a healthy relationship is about so much more than just the physical stuff.

Desire

With thousands of steamy dares to choose from, Desire is going to become your new favorite date night companion. You and your partner can push each other out of your comfort zones and discover new ways to keep that healthy relationship and sex life sizzling hot. Time to say goodbye to vanilla sex!

You’ll earn points for completing dares, level up to unlock even hotter challenges, and even exchange intimate moments in the app’s private couples chat. It’s like having your very own relationship coach right at your fingertips! If you love the vibes of this spicy app, you should listen to Ex-Virgin with Carter Cruise!

Paired

Paired comes with personalized intimacy challenges, thoughtful conversation prompts, and a whole library of expert-approved relationship advice. Its quizzes and daily questions are like conversation starters for couples who want to deepen their connection without awkward small talk.

Paired knows relationships take effort, but it helps you make that effort feel playful and rewarding. Think of it as your relationship cheerleader.

It’s perfect for couples of all stages, whether you’re still in the honeymoon phase or navigating year 10. The app makes relationship-building feel like a game you want to win, not another to-do list item.

Agapé

Rooted in the concept of “unconditional love” (which is what Agapé means in Greek), Agapé makes it easy for you and your partner to nurture your love. It’s like a daily dose of relationship vitamins, offering quick, easy, and heartfelt ways to better understand your partner.

Each day, Agapé sends you and your partner a unique question so you can both spark all sorts of meaningful conversations. We’re talking everything from fun and flirty to unforgettably heartwarming.

And the best part? You both get to see each other’s responses, so you can really understand each other’s thoughts and feelings. Agapé deserves a spot on your phone, PRONTO, especially if you’re looking for a way to spice up your long-distance relationship. You can also dive into this episode of Note to Self for more long-distance relationship tips.

Couply

Couply is the app to try when you feel your relationship needs a glow-up. It combines AI smarts with a sprinkle of romance to become the personal trainer for your love life but with zero judgment. Translation? You and your boo are about to become relationship goals, big time!

No two relationships are the same, and Couply gets that. So, whether you’re navigating early love or hitting those “we’ve been together forever” milestones, this app personalizes its insights to fit your unique needs. Its AI acts as a neutral party, helping you identify patterns, resolve conflicts, and even craft the perfect apology text. (P.S. We all need one of those)

Gottman Card Decks

Created by the legendary Drs. John and Julie Gottman (yes, the Beyoncé and Jay-Z of relationship science), Gottman Card Decks app takes the awkwardness out of building intimacy and puts meaningful connection right in the palm of your hand.

With 14 card decks and over 1,000 flashcards, there’s always something new to explore. From “Love Maps” to “Open-Ended Questions,” each deck is designed to bring you closer and even spice things up in the bedroom. Yes, there’s a “Sexy Questions” deck! And it’s all based on the famed Gottman Method, so you know it’s backed by decades of research and actual results.

This digital sidekick is free to download and travels wherever you go. So, it’s the perfect addition to date nights, road trips, or even a quiet evening in.

Wefeel

Wefeel was designed by a passionate team of psychologists, software engineers, and designers to bring science-backed insights into the palm of your hand. This app aims to make your relationship growth feel less like a chore and more like a playful adventure.

The app comes packed with mini-games and activities that encourage couples to explore their emotions, communication styles, and shared experiences. First, you and your partner link up your accounts using a special code. Then, it’s time to get your game on!

Wefeel serves customized experiences every single day, packed with fun, intuitive interactions that’ll have you two lovebirds learning, growing, and expressing your gratitude for one another.

What brings couples closer together?

Playing relationship-building games.
Budgeting and managing finances together.
Having virtual date nights.
Sharing a digital journal.
Using relationship quiz apps.
Sending each other digital love notes.
Planning adventures. (Get tips on how to do this as a couple on this episode of Him and Her)
Considering each other’s love languages.
Documenting your love story.
Sharing a music playlist.
Working out together.
Meditating as a couple.
Building skills together.
Sharing digital calendars.
Volunteering for a cause you both care about.
Exploring couples therapy.
Planning your goals and dreams together.

Modern love needs modern tools, right? Well, that’s what relationship apps are for. Buckle up lovebirds, it’s time to upgrade your romance. These apps not only help fix things, but they also help you celebrate your relationship, build memories, and have fun while doing it.

And honestly, who doesn’t love the idea of turning “What should we do tonight?” into “Let’s explore this together!” So what are you waiting for, babes? Download these apps, have some fun, and watch your relationship absolutely blossom.

If you’re looking for even more information on how to help your relationship (because who isn’t?), be sure to check out this inspiring lineup of podcasts: