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Casual, Cool, Convenient: 8 Apps For Hooking Up

By Dear Media | January 22, 2025

Let’s get real for a sec hookup culture has completely changed. Modern technology allows people to meet someone and get straight to the point easier than ever. With the right app and a few swipes, boom, you have a match! And most of the time, you don’t even need to leave the comfort of your own home.

Not all apps are the same, though. Some apps are for casual hookups, while others help you find that whole “we connected and instantly fell in love” vibe (which worked out perfectly for Kylie Kelce). If you’re here for casual hookups without that relationship baggage, you need to know which apps are worth downloading!

Don’t stress, though we’ve got the ultimate list of apps designed for hooking up no strings attached. Ready to get your swipe game on?

What Are The Best Apps For Hooking Up?

Tinder

Dare we say that Tinder is the most notorious hookup app for creating fast-paced and direct connections? It’s the OG of that classic swipe-right-for-yes, swipe-left-for-no strategy! And, it’s the go-to spot for people looking for a quick fling without all the post-date drama.

Even though Tinder did popularize hookup culture, there are still people on there looking for love. There’s no shame in asking for just sex; you just have to make your intentions clear! Once you lock that down, set up your profile, and post a few sexy selfies, prepare for your DMs to overflow.

While Tinder is a free dating app, it’s stepped up its game with paid memberships. You can undo swipes, send “Super Likes,” and see exactly who swiped right on you. This takes your swipe game to the next level!

Bumble

Bumble is another solid choice for hookups but with a fun twist: women, we’re making the first move here. Once you match, it’s up to you to get the conversation flowing! Is it intimidating? Maybe. Does it make you feel powerful? Absolutely. Don’t panic; just check out some of the best dating app conversation starters to help you effortlessly ease right into things.

Basically, If Tinder had a cooler, more casual older sis’, Bumble would be it. It’s a more relaxed approach to hookup culture, but the vibes are still there. They offer premium memberships, but the free versions work just as well for finding your potential hookup.

Just keep in mind that Bumble has a 24-hour window for starting a conversation, so if you snooze, you lose. No worries, though new faces pop up all the time. If this is your first time on Bumble and you need some prompt inspo or advice on sliding into DMs, check out this episode from We Met At Acme!

Grindr

Grindr is a location-based app aimed at the gay, bi, trans, and queer community, though gay men make up the largest user base. Don’t worry we’ve got a few other apps in mind for anyone seeking a platform that better aligns with their identity whatever it may be!

If you’re new to casual encounters, Grindr might feel a liittlleee bit direct. But that’s what we want here, right?!? It’s full of people who are upfront and honest about their intentions no beating around the bush.

The good news is you’re much more likely to find people on this app who only want to hook up. It’s pretty easy and straightforward. If you are using this app as a woman and are curious about a woman’s take on Grindr, listen to this episode of The Ins and Outs. And, for a crazy Grindr story that you have to hear for yourself, listen to this episode of Ex Virgin!

Her

Her is an app made by queer women for queer women. It’s a way for the girls, gay, and theys to find casual hookups without men sexualizing them. There are tons of ways to connect and find people looking for the same kind of casual hookup relationship that you are looking for!

When making your profile, use the “Something Casual” tag in the “Looking For” section. You can also narrow your results by adding interests or questions to your profile that help indicate what kind of vibe you’re searching for.

OkCupid

OkCupid might not be the first hookup app that pops into your head, but trust us they deliver. When you create your profile, you’ll fill out a questionnaire on interests, hobbies, and preferences, plus you can filter for things like “friends with benefits” or “casual fling.” Perfect, right?

This app honestly does a great job at matching you with people you’re compatible with. You may not be asking your hookup about their life story, but it’s relieving knowing you share some common interests, right?

The in-depth profile setup process can make this app a little more time-consuming. Once you’re done with that, though, it’s all smooooth sailing from there.

Feeld

Feeld is a whole different vibe if you’re in your experimental era and craving a judgment-free space. Whether you’re exploring your sexuality, curious about threesomes, diving into polyamory, or just here for a casual hookup, Feeld is where you can be your most authentic self.

This is a platform for open-minded and adventurous people, so expect some diversity when you first get in. With Feeld, you don’t have that traditional swiping method for finding people you get to view their profile without making any on-the-spot decisions.

Dipping your toes into the world of open relationships and threesomes? Listen to this episode from Him & Her, or check out Our Open Marriage from Recovering from Reality. If you’re in a place where you’re trying to figure out where you stand in your sexuality, Life, Love, and The Pursuit of Sexuality from Ex Virgin is a great listen!

Hinge

We know that Hinge’s tagline is “the dating app designed to be deleted,” BUT, it’s surprisingly hook-up friendly. We’re not claiming that it’s the most hookup-friendly app out there, but it definitely deserves a spot in the running.

This app is great for casual hookups, but it’s also a good choice if you’re open to a situationship or relationship later on. As with all the other apps we’ve mentioned, whether you want to date, hookup, or maybe something in between, just always make your intentions clear!

Pure

Pure is here for one thing and one thing only: shameless hookups. This is THE app to download if you’re looking for definitive no-strings-attached sex. By writing an ad with your geolocation to find potential matches, Pure takes a much different approach compared to traditional dating apps.

It can feel sketchy, but the creators have a lot of protective measures in place to make you feel comfortable and safe. With the self-destructing feature, any uploaded selfies, private info, or intimate conversations delete within an hour. Perfect for spontaneity, right?!?

the only hook up apps you need on your phone

It’s time to get your hookup game on with one of these apps!

Wanna find a hookup but don’t know where to start? No problem! Just download one of the apps we listed and wait for all of your potential matches to flood in, because they’re definitely out there. When you get a break from all the excitement, you have to check out 34 of the best sex podcasts and 10 podcasts like Call Her Daddy we feel like these will come in handy in this new sexy era of yours.

Be sure to check out the Dear Media blog for helpful advice on anything from dating to health and wellness to your next binge-watch. And, if you need some comfy pieces to wear while you scroll through your newfound potential matches, check out the DM shop! May we suggest this “Safe, Kind, & Hot Cowgirl Tee”??? Because that’s SO you scrolling the apps!

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